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Upon submitting your confidential information below, a member of our Executive Team will reach out to answer any questions about client consideration.
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Absolutely. Discretion is at the heart of our process. All personal information and introductions are handled with strict confidentiality, and our team ensures every detail of your dating journey remains private and secure.
Select Date Society offers a genuinely bespoke matchmaking experience created for individuals who expect excellence in every area of life.
Every membership includes hand-selected introductions, personalized matchmaking strategy, and concierge-level support designed to make the process seamless, discreet, and highly individualized.
Nothing is automated or random. Every introduction is intentional, every interaction confidential, and every detail carefully considered to reflect your standards, values, lifestyle, and long-term relationship goals.
Platinum Members enjoy all the benefits of Concierge service, plus exclusive one-on-one guidance from a dedicated Matchmaker. You preview and approve matches before introductions, receive priority access to new members, and benefit from a nationwide search tailored to your preferences. After each date, you’ll participate in Insight Sessions for honest feedback and clarity, helping you move forward with confidence.
We believe in quality over quantity. By limiting our Executive VIP Membership to just five clients, we ensure each member receives unparalleled attention, real-time feedback, and a deeply personalized matchmaking strategy. This commitment to exclusivity is what drives our exceptional success rate.
Our Executive VIP Membership is intentionally limited to just five clients at any given time, ensuring an exceptional level of attention, discretion, and personalization.
Members work directly with Sandra Myers and Amber Lee, who personally leverage their national and international networks to pursue exceptional introductions worldwide.
From strategy to introductions and ongoing guidance, every aspect of the experience is personally overseen by our founders and elite team.
Once your profile is complete, you’ll connect directly with a Professional Matchmaker for a thoughtful, in-depth strategy sessions. If you’re invited to move forward, you’ll meet with our co-founders, Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, for a private interview. Only those who align with our values and vision are accepted, ensuring our network remains exclusive and highly vetted.
Most people simply reach out through our inquiry form. We follow up with a private conversation - not rushed, not scripted - just an honest discussion about who you are and what you’re hoping to find. From there, we shape a plan around your lifestyle. Some clients come to us because they’re tired of noise. Others because they want a level of care usually reserved for UHNWI circles or individuals seeking a more intentional form of Millionaire Dating.
Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.
Our Concierge Planning extends across borders. Whether it’s a first meeting in a Parisian bistro or a weekend in the Maldives, we handle the fine details reservations, timing, and coordination so your only focus is the person sitting across from you.