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Upon submitting your confidential information below, a member of our Executive Team will reach out to answer any questions about client consideration.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Select Date Society offers a truly bespoke matchmaking journey. Every member receives white-glove service, including hand-selected matches, personal introductions, and concierge support for every date. Our process is never automated or random—each step is intentional, private, and designed to reflect your standards and relationship goals.
We believe in quality over quantity. By limiting our Executive VIP Membership to just five clients, we ensure each member receives unparalleled attention, real-time feedback, and a deeply personalized matchmaking strategy. This commitment to exclusivity is what drives our exceptional success rate.
Our Executive VIP Membership is limited to just five clients at any time, ensuring an unmatched level of attention and customization. You’ll work directly with Amber Lee and Sandra Myers, who activate their global network to find your ideal match—no matter where in the world they may be. Every aspect of your journey, from strategy to introductions, is handled personally by our founders and elite team.
Once your profile is complete, you’ll connect directly with a Professional Matchmaker for a thoughtful, in-depth strategy sessions. If you’re invited to move forward, you’ll meet with our co-founders, Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, for a private interview. Only those who align with our values and vision are accepted, ensuring our network remains exclusive and highly vetted.
Platinum Members enjoy all the benefits of Concierge service, plus exclusive one-on-one guidance from a dedicated Matchmaker. You preview and approve matches before introductions, receive priority access to new members, and benefit from a nationwide search tailored to your preferences. After each date, you’ll participate in Insight Sessions for honest feedback and clarity, helping you move forward with confidence.
Absolutely. Discretion is at the heart of our process. All personal information and introductions are handled with strict confidentiality, and our team ensures every detail of your dating journey remains private and secure.
Yes, but not in a scripted way. We discuss impressions, uncertainties, pacing — whatever comes up naturally. Many clients say the conversations helped them see patterns or preferences they hadn’t noticed before. Think of it as thoughtful companionship through the process, not coaching in the traditional sense.
At Select Date Society, we recommend starting with trusted referrals or searching for matchmakers who specialize in elite, personalized matchmaking. Look for proven experience, strong privacy standards, and a hands-on approach. Book a consultation to ensure their process aligns with your expectations. Transparency and confidentiality are key qualities. Select Date Society proudly upholds to help you find meaningful connections with discretion and care.
Most people simply reach out through our inquiry form. We follow up with a private conversation - not rushed, not scripted - just an honest discussion about who you are and what you’re hoping to find. From there, we shape a plan around your lifestyle. Some clients come to us because they’re tired of noise. Others because they want a level of care usually reserved for UHNWI circles or individuals seeking a more intentional form of Millionaire Dating.