CONCIERGE  LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM  LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP  LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
Once you complete your profile, a professional matchmaker will personally reach out. Based on your conversation, they’ll decide whether to schedule an interview. You’ll meet Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, Co-Founders & Owners of SDS, who will share their confidence in representing you after understanding your criteria. Acceptance is based on providing resources for a successful membership. Once accepted, you gain access to highly sought-after singles in our broad elite dating network.
SDS clients work with certified matchmakers who get to know you through our proprietary onboarding process. We gather detailed information about your love history and tailor interview questions to ensure you meet only qualified matches. After approval, we notify you and begin the concierge setup of your date.
Our Date Concierge manages everything—from scheduling to confirming availability and finding the perfect setting—for a hassle-free luxury matchmaking experience.
Concierge Level Matchmaking clients receive one insight session during membership and first priority to upgrade to Platinum Level Matchmaking when available.
concierge membership level
If you’re ready for a relationship rooted in depth, chemistry, and mutual vision, you’re in the right place.
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

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Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients
Select Date Society is not just any high-end luxury matchmaker, we set the gold standard for excellence in luxury matchmaking.

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach Phoenix San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai


United Kingdom

London


Italy

Milan


France

Paris


Canada

Toronto

Frequently Asked Questions

What is included in the Platinum Membership?

Platinum Members enjoy all the benefits of Concierge service, plus exclusive one-on-one guidance from a dedicated Matchmaker. You preview and approve matches before introductions, receive priority access to new members, and benefit from a nationwide search tailored to your preferences. After each date, you’ll participate in Insight Sessions for honest feedback and clarity, helping you move forward with confidence.


How does the Concierge Matchmaking process work?

Once your profile is complete, you’ll connect directly with a Professional Matchmaker for a thoughtful, in-depth strategy sessions. If you’re invited to move forward, you’ll meet with our co-founders, Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, for a private interview. Only those who align with our values and vision are accepted, ensuring our network remains exclusive and highly vetted.

Why does Select Date Society limit the number of VIP clients?

We believe in quality over quantity. By limiting our Executive VIP Membership to just five clients, we ensure each member receives unparalleled attention, real-time feedback, and a deeply personalized matchmaking strategy. This commitment to exclusivity is what drives our exceptional success rate.


What makes Select Date Society’s membership experience “ultra luxury”?

Select Date Society offers a truly bespoke matchmaking journey. Every member receives white-glove service, including hand-selected matches, personal introductions, and concierge support for every date. Our process is never automated or random—each step is intentional, private, and designed to reflect your standards and relationship goals.

Is my privacy and discretion guaranteed as a member?

Absolutely. Discretion is at the heart of our process. All personal information and introductions are handled with strict confidentiality, and our team ensures every detail of your dating journey remains private and secure.


What sets the Executive VIP Membership apart?

Our Executive VIP Membership is limited to just five clients at any time, ensuring an unmatched level of attention and customization. You’ll work directly with Amber Lee and Sandra Myers, who activate their global network to find your ideal match—no matter where in the world they may be. Every aspect of your journey, from strategy to introductions, is handled personally by our founders and elite team.


How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.

Is the vetting process equally rigorous for international members?

Absolutely. Every member, regardless of location, undergoes our signature multi-step screening process. This includes identity verification, background checks, and deep-dive interviews to ensure they meet our standards for ambition, character, and lifestyle.

What if I am open to relocating or looking for someone willing to move?

This is a primary focus during our initial consultation. Many of our clients have the flexibility to relocate for the right person. We prioritize matching you with individuals whose long-term visions including where they want to call home align with yours.