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Once your profile is complete, you’ll connect directly with a Professional Matchmaker for a thoughtful, in-depth strategy sessions. If you’re invited to move forward, you’ll meet with our co-founders, Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, for a private interview. Only those who align with our values and vision are accepted, ensuring our network remains exclusive and highly vetted.
Our Executive VIP Membership is intentionally limited to just five clients at any given time, ensuring an exceptional level of attention, discretion, and personalization.
Members work directly with Sandra Myers and Amber Lee, who personally leverage their national and international networks to pursue exceptional introductions worldwide.
From strategy to introductions and ongoing guidance, every aspect of the experience is personally overseen by our founders and elite team.
We believe in quality over quantity. By limiting our Executive VIP Membership to just five clients, we ensure each member receives unparalleled attention, real-time feedback, and a deeply personalized matchmaking strategy. This commitment to exclusivity is what drives our exceptional success rate.
Select Date Society offers a genuinely bespoke matchmaking experience created for individuals who expect excellence in every area of life.
Every membership includes hand-selected introductions, personalized matchmaking strategy, and concierge-level support designed to make the process seamless, discreet, and highly individualized.
Nothing is automated or random. Every introduction is intentional, every interaction confidential, and every detail carefully considered to reflect your standards, values, lifestyle, and long-term relationship goals.
Platinum Members enjoy all the benefits of Concierge service, plus exclusive one-on-one guidance from a dedicated Matchmaker. You preview and approve matches before introductions, receive priority access to new members, and benefit from a nationwide search tailored to your preferences. After each date, you’ll participate in Insight Sessions for honest feedback and clarity, helping you move forward with confidence.
Absolutely. Discretion is at the heart of our process. All personal information and introductions are handled with strict confidentiality, and our team ensures every detail of your dating journey remains private and secure.
They prefer boutiques that understand their world — its pace, its expectations, its risks. Select Date Society is often the choice for Elite Matchmaking because the work is quiet, curated, and grounded in reality. It’s private introductions designed for people who need more than a list of names. It's an elevated approach built for those who move through life at a different altitude.
Our Concierge Planning extends across borders. Whether it’s a first meeting in a Parisian bistro or a weekend in the Maldives, we handle the fine details reservations, timing, and coordination so your only focus is the person sitting across from you.
A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.