CONCIERGE  LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM  LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP  LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
Once you complete your profile, a professional matchmaker will personally reach out. Based on your conversation, they’ll decide whether to schedule an interview. You’ll meet Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, Co-Founders & Owners of SDS, who will share their confidence in representing you after understanding your criteria. Acceptance is based on providing resources for a successful membership. Once accepted, you gain access to highly sought-after singles in our broad elite dating network.
SDS clients work with certified matchmakers who get to know you through our proprietary onboarding process. We gather detailed information about your love history and tailor interview questions to ensure you meet only qualified matches. After approval, we notify you and begin the concierge setup of your date.
Our Date Concierge manages everything—from scheduling to confirming availability and finding the perfect setting—for a hassle-free luxury matchmaking experience.
Concierge Level Matchmaking clients receive one insight session during membership and first priority to upgrade to Platinum Level Matchmaking when available.
concierge membership level
If you’re ready for a relationship rooted in depth, chemistry, and mutual vision, you’re in the right place.
Founders Club
Million Dollar Membership (Invite Only)
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
This is Ultra-Exclusive matchmaking. It’s an immersive relationship concierge experience, starting with a private, in-home consultation conducted by the co-founders themselves. No assistants. No delegation.

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Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients
Select Date Society is not just any high-end luxury matchmaker, we set the gold standard for excellence in luxury matchmaking.

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton California Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

What is included in the Platinum Membership?

Platinum Members enjoy all the benefits of Concierge service, plus exclusive one-on-one guidance from a dedicated Matchmaker. You preview and approve matches before introductions, receive priority access to new members, and benefit from a nationwide search tailored to your preferences. After each date, you’ll participate in Insight Sessions for honest feedback and clarity, helping you move forward with confidence.


How does the Concierge Matchmaking process work?

Once your profile is complete, you’ll connect directly with a Professional Matchmaker for a thoughtful, in-depth strategy sessions. If you’re invited to move forward, you’ll meet with our co-founders, Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, for a private interview. Only those who align with our values and vision are accepted, ensuring our network remains exclusive and highly vetted.

Why does Select Date Society limit the number of VIP clients?

We believe in quality over quantity. By limiting our Executive VIP Membership to just five clients, we ensure each member receives unparalleled attention, real-time feedback, and a deeply personalized matchmaking strategy. This commitment to exclusivity is what drives our exceptional success rate.


What sets the Executive VIP Membership apart?

Our Executive VIP Membership is limited to just five clients at any time, ensuring an unmatched level of attention and customization. You’ll work directly with Amber Lee and Sandra Myers, who activate their global network to find your ideal match—no matter where in the world they may be. Every aspect of your journey, from strategy to introductions, is handled personally by our founders and elite team.


Is my privacy and discretion guaranteed as a member?

Absolutely. Discretion is at the heart of our process. All personal information and introductions are handled with strict confidentiality, and our team ensures every detail of your dating journey remains private and secure.


What makes Select Date Society’s membership experience “ultra luxury”?

Select Date Society offers a truly bespoke matchmaking journey. Every member receives white-glove service, including hand-selected matches, personal introductions, and concierge support for every date. Our process is never automated or random—each step is intentional, private, and designed to reflect your standards and relationship goals.

How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.

What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.

What makes Select Date Society different from typical dating apps?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service exclusively for elite singles. Unlike mass-market apps, we focus on meaningful, vetted introductions tailored to your unique goals and lifestyle.