Northeast
New York Greenwich Upper East Side Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
West
Aspen Atherton Newport Beach Palo Alto Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Southeast
Coral Gables Great Falls Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Highland Park Paradise Valley Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai

United Kingdom

London

Italy

Milan

France

Paris

Canada

Toronto

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals, entrepreneurs, executives, and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society.
I`ve had a great experience with Select Date Society and I feel the team has supported my dating goals 100%. I have referred friends who want top of the line service without the pain of bad set ups.
Peter H
SDS is an ideal service and Amber in particular is the quintessential professional. She is fully invested in all of her clients and is not satisfied Until she secures a match. I highly recommend her service.
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Wonderful dating experience and fantastic, caring team! Fully recommend them!
Richard Eydt
I spent two years serial dating using dating apps which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire Select Date Society. I was a "one and done" as my matchmaker likes to say. Raf was my first and only match. I knew within a few dates that he was the...
Lindsay Culkin
I was hesitant at first as I didn’t know what to expect since I never worked with a matchmaker before and this company came highly recommended. I spoke with Sandra and from the very first moment felt truly connected to her! I felt as though she knew me my entire...
Natalie Chacon
This match making agency understood who I am and what I was looking for in a man I wanted to meet as a future companion. The very first date that Emily found for me was the perfect match. He is a widower who had a successful long marriage like me...
Linda Wenstrand
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Frequently Asked Questions

Is Select Date Society only for celebrities or ultra-high-net-worth individuals?

While we specialize in serving ultra-high-net-worth and successful singles, our services are available to discerning individuals seeking a professional, confidential matchmaking experience.

What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.

Is the vetting process equally rigorous for international members?

Absolutely. Every member, regardless of location, undergoes our signature multi-step screening process. This includes identity verification, background checks, and deep-dive interviews to ensure they meet our standards for ambition, character, and lifestyle.