Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai

United Kingdom

London

Italy

Milan

France

Paris

Canada

Toronto

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society, directly from Google.
This process with Select Date Society has been AMAZING! My matchmaker was professional, enthusiastic, and really listened to what I am looking for in a partner. She made me feel comfortable with everything and showed me high-quality men. I highly recommend Select Date Society.
Amber Nabors
SDS has provided me the highest level professionalism and personal support in trying to find the perfect person to share my life with. As a busy professional and a person who travels extensively and honestly just not having the time to 'get out there and meet people', especially the 'right'...
John Duva
Divorced and in my 40s, dating after so many years was almost unimaginable. I was told about a private matchmaking firm that was working with a minimal number of clients and I decided to reach out. I immediately felt comfortable and knew they understood how uncomfortable this call was for...
Debbie Sheffield
All I have to say is this company is the real deal!!! I came to Sandra thinking I would never have a family of my own with my previous relationships! I had the assumption that I would be single forever. I was trying to check the boxes and it was...
Kristin Lovingood
I truly believe Sandra has a gift and is the real deal! I’m SO glad I took the chance and met with her as I was reluctant. It has been 10 years since I had a meaningful relationship! She was very nice, genuine and did not rush or push me...
Gemma Francisco
This is one of the best ways to meet the right person in your life. SDS takes the time to do a thorough interview as to who you are and what your looking for. Sandra and her team are the best in the business! The date they give you will...
Nick Johnson
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Frequently Asked Questions

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.

What is the typical timeframe for finding a match internationally?

Quality takes time, and international searches can be more complex due to travel schedules. However, because our network consists of intentional, serious professionals, the process is often more efficient than traditional dating. We focus on the right introduction, not just the next one.

Is Select Date Society only for celebrities or ultra-high-net-worth individuals?

While we specialize in serving ultra-high-net-worth and successful singles, our services are available to discerning individuals seeking a professional, confidential matchmaking experience.