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West
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Midwest
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International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai

United Kingdom

London

Italy

Milan

France

Paris

Canada

Toronto

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society, directly from Google.
Can you put a price on love? I think not. As a busy, successful woman, it was nice to 'outsource' my dating life. But more important than saving me time (and headaches), Select Date Society worked with me closely to educate me on what kind of man, I NEED. I`m...
Renee Rouleau
Simply put, my matchmaker walks on water! She has boundless energy and is a tireless worker on my behalf. Most importantly, she has an intuition and a gift for finding potential matches. I am so fortunate I found her. She is an indispensable member of the SDS team!
Douglas Carl
Divorced and in my 40s, dating after so many years was almost unimaginable. I was told about a private matchmaking firm that was working with a minimal number of clients and I decided to reach out. I immediately felt comfortable and knew they understood how uncomfortable this call was for...
Debbie Sheffield
I spent two years serial dating using dating apps which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire Select Date Society. I was a "one and done" as my matchmaker likes to say. Raf was my first and only match. I knew within a few dates that he was the...
Lindsay Culkin
This match making agency understood who I am and what I was looking for in a man I wanted to meet as a future companion. The very first date that Emily found for me was the perfect match. He is a widower who had a successful long marriage like me...
Linda Wenstrand
Amazing! This is the real deal. SDS truly CARES about you and sincerely wants to help you find your partner. Forget all the other methods, and choose people who are vested in helping you. My advisor was so tuned into learning about me and asked serious questions in order to...
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Frequently Asked Questions

How do you find a professional matchmaker?

At Select Date Society, we recommend starting with trusted referrals or searching for matchmakers who specialize in elite, personalized matchmaking. Look for proven experience, strong privacy standards, and a hands-on approach. Book a consultation to ensure their process aligns with your expectations. Transparency and confidentiality are key qualities. Select Date Society proudly upholds to help you find meaningful connections with discretion and care.

How do you handle the logistics of international introductions?

Our Concierge Planning extends across borders. Whether it’s a first meeting in a Parisian bistro or a weekend in the Maldives, we handle the fine details reservations, timing, and coordination so your only focus is the person sitting across from you.

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.