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Can you put a price on love? I think not. As a busy, successful woman, it was nice to 'outsource' my dating life. But more important than saving me time (and headaches), Select Date Society worked with me closely to educate me on what kind of man, I NEED. I`m...
Renee Rouleau
My experience with SDS has been awesome! They are the best. I am 100% happy with my experience. My time spent with SDS has provided me with dating insight. The best tips and advice to create and build a happy partnership. 10 outta 10 rec
Stacy Zeiler
Working with Select Date Society has been the best decision I ever made! They not only helped me find my future husband but they coached me along the way! Thank you so much for everything!!
Kim Wright
I was hesitant at first as I didn’t know what to expect since I never worked with a matchmaker before and this company came highly recommended. I spoke with Sandra and from the very first moment felt truly connected to her! I felt as though she knew me my entire...
Natalie Chacon
My experience with SDS has been absolutely First Class. This is a team that not only has the experience, expertise and contacts to be very successful, but also takes time to ask thoughtful questions and have real human conversations. The SDS way of making introductions and encouraging connections is life-changing...
Dan Zimmerman
Amazing! This is the real deal. SDS truly CARES about you and sincerely wants to help you find your partner. Forget all the other methods, and choose people who are vested in helping you. My advisor was so tuned into learning about me and asked serious questions in order to...
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Frequently Asked Questions

What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.

Who typically becomes a client?

There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment… the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.

Who do Millionaires and Billionaires trust for matchmaking?

They prefer boutiques that understand their world — its pace, its expectations, its risks. Select Date Society is often the choice for Elite Matchmaking because the work is quiet, curated, and grounded in reality. It’s private introductions designed for people who need more than a list of names. It's an elevated approach built for those who move through life at a different altitude.