Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai

United Kingdom

London

Italy

Milan

France

Paris

Canada

Toronto

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Select Date Society really cares and works diligently for their clients. They have the expertise and the network system to introduce quality potential candidates to their clients. This is why they have such a high and well deserved success rate.
Anna regensburger
SDS is an ideal service and Amber in particular is the quintessential professional. She is fully invested in all of her clients and is not satisfied Until she secures a match. I highly recommend her service.
Archie Alston
My experience with SDS has been absolutely First Class. This is a team that not only has the experience, expertise and contacts to be very successful, but also takes time to ask thoughtful questions and have real human conversations. The SDS way of making introductions and encouraging connections is life-changing...
Dan Zimmerman
Amazing! This is the real deal. SDS truly CARES about you and sincerely wants to help you find your partner. Forget all the other methods, and choose people who are vested in helping you. My advisor was so tuned into learning about me and asked serious questions in order to...
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This is one of the best ways to meet the right person in your life. SDS takes the time to do a thorough interview as to who you are and what your looking for. Sandra and her team are the best in the business! The date they give you will...
Nick Johnson
Select Date Society is very professional, friendly, and works hard to find the right match not just any match. Recommend highly.
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Frequently Asked Questions

How does someone begin working with Select Date Society?

Most people simply reach out through our inquiry form. We follow up with a private conversation - not rushed, not scripted - just an honest discussion about who you are and what you’re hoping to find. From there, we shape a plan around your lifestyle. Some clients come to us because they’re tired of noise. Others because they want a level of care usually reserved for UHNWI circles or individuals seeking a more intentional form of Millionaire Dating.

What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.

Is the vetting process equally rigorous for international members?

Absolutely. Every member, regardless of location, undergoes our signature multi-step screening process. This includes identity verification, background checks, and deep-dive interviews to ensure they meet our standards for ambition, character, and lifestyle.