Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai

United Kingdom

London

Italy

Milan

France

Paris

Canada

Toronto

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See what accomplished professionals, entrepreneurs, executives, and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society.
My experience with SDS has been awesome! They are the best. I am 100% happy with my experience. My time spent with SDS has provided me with dating insight. The best tips and advice to create and build a happy partnership. 10 outta 10 rec
Stacy Zeiler
Select Date Society really cares and works diligently for their clients. They have the expertise and the network system to introduce quality potential candidates to their clients. This is why they have such a high and well deserved success rate.
Anna regensburger
SDS has provided me the highest level professionalism and personal support in trying to find the perfect person to share my life with. As a busy professional and a person who travels extensively and honestly just not having the time to 'get out there and meet people', especially the 'right'...
John Duva
Working with Select Date Society has been the best decision I ever made! They not only helped me find my future husband but they coached me along the way! Thank you so much for everything!!
Kim Wright
Fantastic staff and and a very thorough intake to ensure successful matches.
Jaeson Rosa
My experience with SDS has been absolutely First Class. This is a team that not only has the experience, expertise and contacts to be very successful, but also takes time to ask thoughtful questions and have real human conversations. The SDS way of making introductions and encouraging connections is life-changing...
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Frequently Asked Questions

Is the vetting process equally rigorous for international members?

Absolutely. Every member, regardless of location, undergoes our signature multi-step screening process. This includes identity verification, background checks, and deep-dive interviews to ensure they meet our standards for ambition, character, and lifestyle.

How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.

Who typically becomes a client?

There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment and the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s a preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.