Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai

United Kingdom

London

Italy

Milan

France

Paris

Canada

Toronto

Trusted by Successful Singles

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My experience with SDS has been awesome! They are the best. I am 100% happy with my experience. My time spent with SDS has provided me with dating insight. The best tips and advice to create and build a happy partnership. 10 outta 10 rec
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Divorced and in my 40s, dating after so many years was almost unimaginable. I was told about a private matchmaking firm that was working with a minimal number of clients and I decided to reach out. I immediately felt comfortable and knew they understood how uncomfortable this call was for...
Debbie Sheffield
Amber and her team are the epitome of perfection! They listen and go above and beyond. I would certainly recommend Select Date Society for anyone looking for prompt and professional services.
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My experience with SDS has been absolutely First Class. This is a team that not only has the experience, expertise and contacts to be very successful, but also takes time to ask thoughtful questions and have real human conversations. The SDS way of making introductions and encouraging connections is life-changing...
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Select Date Society is very professional, friendly, and works hard to find the right match not just any match. Recommend highly.
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Frequently Asked Questions

How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.

How do I get started if I live outside of the United States?

The process begins with a private, virtual consultation. We’ll discuss your lifestyle, your "must-haves," and your global footprint. From there, we’ll determine if our elite network is the right fit for your international search.

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.