Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai

United Kingdom

London

Italy

Milan

France

Paris

Canada

Toronto

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals, entrepreneurs, executives, and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society.
This process with Select Date Society has been AMAZING! My matchmaker was professional, enthusiastic, and really listened to what I am looking for in a partner. She made me feel comfortable with everything and showed me high-quality men. I highly recommend Select Date Society.
Amber Nabors
Simply put, my matchmaker walks on water! She has boundless energy and is a tireless worker on my behalf. Most importantly, she has an intuition and a gift for finding potential matches. I am so fortunate I found her. She is an indispensable member of the SDS team!
Douglas Carl
Select Date Society really cares and works diligently for their clients. They have the expertise and the network system to introduce quality potential candidates to their clients. This is why they have such a high and well deserved success rate.
Anna regensburger
I have been on the fence about hiring a matchmaker and the moment I got on the phone with Sandra, all of my doubts were gone. It felt like I`ve known her for years. She was professional, intuitive and thoroughly listened to my needs and wants regarding my next relationship....
lindsay Johnson
Divorced and in my 40s, dating after so many years was almost unimaginable. I was told about a private matchmaking firm that was working with a minimal number of clients and I decided to reach out. I immediately felt comfortable and knew they understood how uncomfortable this call was for...
Debbie Sheffield
Wonderful dating experience and fantastic, caring team! Fully recommend them!
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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I get started if I live outside of the United States?

The process begins with a private, virtual consultation. We’ll discuss your lifestyle, your "must-haves," and your global footprint. From there, we’ll determine if our elite network is the right fit for your international search.

How do you find a professional matchmaker?

At Select Date Society, we recommend starting with trusted referrals or searching for matchmakers who specialize in elite, personalized matchmaking. Look for proven experience, strong privacy standards, and a hands-on approach. Book a consultation to ensure their process aligns with your expectations. Transparency and confidentiality are key qualities. Select Date Society proudly upholds to help you find meaningful connections with discretion and care.

What if I am open to relocating or looking for someone willing to move?

This is a primary focus during our initial consultation. Many of our clients have the flexibility to relocate for the right person. We prioritize matching you with individuals whose long-term visions including where they want to call home align with yours.