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See what accomplished professionals and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society, directly from Google.
This process with Select Date Society has been AMAZING! My matchmaker was professional, enthusiastic, and really listened to what I am looking for in a partner. She made me feel comfortable with everything and showed me high-quality men. I highly recommend Select Date Society.
Amber Nabors
I am forever grateful for my experience with Select Date Society. Thank you, Amber, for introducing me to my fiancé! We have so much fun together and we both are so impressed with our experience working with you and your team. I didn`t think I would find someone who made...
Olivia Kaiser
I`ve had a great experience with Select Date Society and I feel the team has supported my dating goals 100%. I have referred friends who want top of the line service without the pain of bad set ups.
Peter H
SDS has provided me the highest level professionalism and personal support in trying to find the perfect person to share my life with. As a busy professional and a person who travels extensively and honestly just not having the time to 'get out there and meet people', especially the 'right'...
John Duva
I truly believe Sandra has a gift and is the real deal! I’m SO glad I took the chance and met with her as I was reluctant. It has been 10 years since I had a meaningful relationship! She was very nice, genuine and did not rush or push me...
Gemma Francisco
Select Date Society is very professional, friendly, and works hard to find the right match not just any match. Recommend highly.
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Frequently Asked Questions

Who typically becomes a client?

There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment… the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.

What makes Select Date Society different from traditional or app-based matchmaking?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service for elite singles who want more than algorithms and guesswork. The short version is simple: we’re far more involved. Apps chase volume and traditional agencies often lean on chance. We don’t. We listen carefully, and curate with intention. Our work feels closer to a private advisory service than anything algorithmic. We offer high-end matchmaking with a human touch — subtle, discreet, steady

Do Matchmaking services actually work?

Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.