Professional Matchmaking For Elite Singles
Select Date Society was founded on the idea that singles today need a better option in the dating arena. Our luxury professional matchmakers understand that each client requires very specific needs to succeed. We take a tailored, personalized matchmaking approach to create opportunities for optimal success. The one-size-fits-all approach of most services, whether online dating or personal matchmaking, often fail to produce the results clients desire.
SDS clients expect to be one of the select few, not one of many, as with large franchise organizations. They choose us for our exclusiveness as a boutique elite matchmaking firm and our highly seasoned team of professional matchmakers. Our matchmakers custom-fit a program specifically for you to achieve your desired end goal. Clients feel confident that we will exceed their quality and service expectations with our discreet, uniquely designed matchmaking services.
Most singles we work with embody the criteria for successful relationships. The challenge is access to quality singles rather than meeting people in general. Some clients appreciate additional support from their own professional matchmaker, gaining insight and date feedback to assess their dates accurately. This input has a proven track record to build confidence and accelerate their end goal.
We know no one perseveres when blindly dating. That's why Select Date Society matchmakers are dedicated to transforming your dating journey into an enjoyable and successful one. Our matchmakers are committed to helping you persevere and find joy in the process of finding a meaningful connection.
If you seek a unique, executive matchmaking professional approach that encourages and supports your dating efforts, Select Date Society is the perfect choice. Our firm puts singles back in the driver’s seat, helping them get excited about dating again. Whether reentering the dating scene or ready to find the love of your life, SDS matchmakers will make it happen.
Select Date Society offers a fun dating experience while maintaining high standards of selection and service. We tailor services by membership level to meet expectations and provide what’s necessary for success. Our goal is to make dating fun with a specific action plan. Whether you want minimal or full matchmaker support, SDS stays laser-focused on making this life challenge achievable.
Amber Lee
CEO & Co-Founder
Amber is a certified matchmaker, enneagram coach, Gottman 7 Principles leader, and strategic
intervention coach with a bachelor’s degree in business administration. She has been a professional
matchmaker since 1998. Amber combines her experience, knowledge, and intuition to help her clients find
their perfect match!
Sandra Myers
President & Co-Founder
Sandra is a certified Matchmaker with a degree in speech communications and organizational management.
Sandra has been a professional matchmaker since 1996. Her ability to quickly read singles and
instinctively ascertain the qualities needed to make a great connection, has been the key to her
success. Clients love her no nonsense approach, expertise and passion for getting results.
SDS was founded by Amber Lee and Sandra Myers with the shared mission of becoming the “Gold Standard” in elite
matchmaking. With more than 50 years of combined experience, they have built a firm dedicated to outcomes over
volume. They’ve curated a highly experienced team, bringing together professionals with backgrounds in
psychology,
coaching, recruiting, and relationship strategy. Our team is the heart of our success. Meet our Matchmakers.
Amber’s strength lies in her deep professional network and long-standing relationships, while Sandra’s focus on
elevating client experience has created a culture of warmth, trust, and excellence. Together, they’ve cultivated
a service where clients feel supported, heard, and understood. SDS is more than a service, it's a partnership
built on integrity and shared goals. Our clients know that we’re as committed to their outcome as they are.
Select Date Society is also proud to give back. After Amber survived sudden cardiac arrest, SDS made a
commitment to
support others through heart-health awareness and charitable giving. A portion of every membership goes directly
to
the American Heart Association. By working with us, you’re not only investing in your future, you're helping us
support life-saving research with every heart we touch.
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Servicing Areas
Popular
New York
California
Menlo Park
Miami
Palm Beach
San Francisco
Silicon Valley
Virginia
Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York
Boston
Hartford
Hudson Yards
Long Island
Manhattan
Martha’s Vineyard
Nantucket
New Haven
Philadelphia
Pittsburgh
SoHo
Star Island
The Hamptons
Trenton
Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria
Arlington
Atlanta
Baltimore
Bethesda
Boca Raton
California
Charleston
Charlotte
Chevy Chase
Falls Church
Fisher Island
Greensboro
Jupiter
Key Biscayne
McLean
Miami
Naples
Nashville
New Orleans
Palm Beach
Potomac
Raleigh
Richmond
Tampa
Virginia
Washington D.C.
Wolf Trap
Midwest
Frequently Asked Questions
Is my privacy protected throughout the matchmaking process?
Absolutely. Privacy and discretion are core values at Select Date Society. All client information is handled with the utmost confidentiality, and our process is designed to protect your identity and personal details at every step.
How does the matchmaking process work at Select Date Society?
Every client relationship begins with a confidential consultation and a personalized strategy. Our Matchmakers get to know your unique relationship goals and preferences before introducing you to compatible, vetted singles from our private database. We offer ongoing support, feedback, and coaching after each introduction to help you grow and make informed choices.
Who are the founders of Select Date Society?
Select Date Society was founded by Amber Lee and Sandra Myers, who bring over 50 years of combined matchmaking and relationship strategy experience. Their vision is to set the “Gold Standard” in elite matchmaking by focusing on outcomes, integrity, and client care.
How Much Does Exclusive Matchmaking Cost?
Pricing for exclusive matchmaking isn’t one-size-fits-all—and with good reason. You’re not just paying
for introductions; you’re investing in a highly personalized and discreet service built around your
goals.
Most luxury matchmaking services begin around $65,000, and for the most premium
programs, the investment can reach well into the six figures. What you’re really paying for is access:
to a curated network, experienced matchmakers, ongoing guidance, and the time saved in finding the right
person without the noise of modern dating apps.
It’s important to ask not just what the service costs—but what you’re getting
in return. Look at real reviews, ask about success stories, and don’t hesitate to dig into how they
operate once the contract is signed.
How is Select Date Society different from traditional matchmaking?
We combine decades of industry experience with modern, personalized strategies. Our approach focuses on quality over quantity and offers ongoing coaching to empower your dating journey.
What makes Select Date Society different from typical dating apps?
Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service exclusively for elite singles. Unlike mass-market apps, we focus on meaningful, vetted introductions tailored to your unique goals and lifestyle.
Is my privacy protected?
Absolutely. Confidentiality is our top priority. We use NDAs, secure communication, and strict data handling protocols to ensure your personal information remains private at all times.