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Elite Matchmaker in California: Tailored Services for Successful Singles


Are you a high-powered professional in California, tired of navigating the overwhelming world of dating? If you’re a successful individual seeking a like-minded partner, our luxury matchmaker services in California at Select Date Society are designed to meet your high standards. Whether you’ve been dating unsuccessfully or are re-engaging after a break, we offer a personalized matchmaking experience to help you find the love you deserve.


Why Choose Select Date Society’s Luxury California Matchmaking?


At Select Date Society, we understand that your time and privacy are valuable. As a trusted California matchmaker, we specialize in connecting successful professionals, affluent individuals, and high-net-worth singles with compatible partners. Our matchmaking services are more than just introductions. We offer a comprehensive approach that includes personalized coaching, concierge services, and an exclusive network of highly vetted singles.


Interested in learning more about how our California matchmaker works? Check out our Matchmaking Process page for a detailed overview


Tailored Matchmaking


We go beyond traditional matchmaking by ensuring every match is carefully selected based on your personal goals, values, and lifestyle. From the moment you complete your consultation, we’ll match you with individuals who meet your high expectations. We also use a strategic interview process with our certified California matchmaker, allowing us to identify key traits and preferences, so you won’t waste time on mismatches.


Concierge Dating Services in CA


Dating for elite singles requires a tailored approach. Our luxury concierge services elevate your dating experience with customized date planning and venue selection. Whether it’s a scenic sunset in San Francisco or a romantic dinner in Beverly Hills, we handle the details so you can focus on building meaningful relationships. We ensure that your dates are memorable and aligned with your sophisticated tastes.


Looking for more advice on how to succeed in the dating world? Check out our Matchmaking Tips Blog


Professional Matchmaking Services in All California Regions


Our high-end matchmaking services are available for elite singles across the whole state of California. You will find our experienced matchmakers in locations such as:


  • San Francisco, California
  • San Jose, California
  • Silicon Valley, California
  • Palm Desert, California
  • Los Angeles, California
  • San Diego, California
  • Beverly Hills, California

Each match is selected from our trusted pool of singles, all of whom are handpicked for their compatibility and commitment to a lasting relationship.


Want to hear real stories of love and success? Visit our Success Stories page to learn more about the couples who’ve found lasting relationship


Your Privacy and Success Are Our Priority


At Select Date Society, we value your confidentiality. From the initial consultation to every stage of the dating process, we prioritize discretion. Our team of expert matchmakers is committed to helping you achieve your relationship goals, regardless of whether you're seeking a long-term partner or exploring new possibilities.


Ready to begin your journey toward love? Get in touch today and experience the benefits of luxury matchmaking with Select Date Society in California.




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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
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( Client Approved Matches )
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( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
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Million Dollar Membership (Invite Only)
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
This is Ultra-Exclusive matchmaking. It’s an immersive relationship concierge experience, starting with a private, in-home consultation conducted by the co-founders themselves. No assistants. No delegation.

Client Success Stories

Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

Servicing Areas

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Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton California Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

Is my privacy protected?

Absolutely. Confidentiality is our top priority. We use NDAs, secure communication, and strict data handling protocols to ensure your personal information remains private at all times.

What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.

Is Select Date Society only for celebrities or ultra-high-net-worth individuals?

While we specialize in serving ultra-high-net-worth and successful singles, our services are available to discerning individuals seeking a professional, confidential matchmaking experience.