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Why Use a Luxury Matchmaker In Chicago?


You are an accomplished professional living in Chicago, striving for meaningful dates. Yet, you are unable to find elite singles suiting your tastes and goals. If you can relate to this situation, we have a solution for you: Select Date Society’s high-end Chicago matchmaking will successfully get you back into the dating arena!


Discreet, professional and exclusive Chicago matchmaking for elite singles like you


We know who you are: an attractive, prosperous executive looking for the love of your life. You value success, efficiency and privacy. You are newly single or just tired of swiping left and right. Our high-end matchmaking service in Chicago is dedicated to upscale singles like you.


Our membership is a guarantee of meeting elite singles with similar values. Your experience and professional success are what define your relationship goals, and our Chicago matchmakers will connect you with other executives just like you. Forget about hours spent on dates that were bound to fail – with us, you will finally meet singles who are worth your time.


Professional matchmakers in Chicago who will support you through your dating journey


We desire to create a positive dating story for you. Thus, our matchmakers are there to assist you not only in finding the finest partner, but also in creating a sublime dating experience. We are not men-oriented as standard dating franchises – men and women receive the same, thorough amount of support. Our consideration for membership means that we believe in your success and wish to help you achieve it.


Do not wait and elevate your dating experience with our professional matchmaking service in Chicago. Submit our confidential inquiry form and prepare to meet your soulmate


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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
The Founders Club is the pinnacle of exclusive, personalized luxury matchmaking. With a $1 million membership investment, experience elite matchmaking created for a select few who value privacy, excellence, and a deeply individualized approach to finding love. This extraordinary partnership offers an unmatched level of discretion, strategic guidance, and founder-led support.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach Phoenix San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai


United Kingdom

London


Italy

Milan


France

Paris


Canada

Toronto

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you handle the logistics of international introductions?

Our Concierge Planning extends across borders. Whether it’s a first meeting in a Parisian bistro or a weekend in the Maldives, we handle the fine details reservations, timing, and coordination so your only focus is the person sitting across from you.

How do I get started if I live outside of the United States?

The process begins with a private, virtual consultation. We’ll discuss your lifestyle, your "must-haves," and your global footprint. From there, we’ll determine if our elite network is the right fit for your international search.

Is the vetting process equally rigorous for international members?

Absolutely. Every member, regardless of location, undergoes our signature multi-step screening process. This includes identity verification, background checks, and deep-dive interviews to ensure they meet our standards for ambition, character, and lifestyle.