The experience behind the work. Our team brings more than 60 years of combined expertise to each engagement, with a record built across the full range of high-net-worth client profiles in North America and internationally. We do not operate at volume. Each client receives focused, senior-level attention at every stage of the process.
Most clients begin receiving introductions within four to six weeks of their initial consultation. The process is calibrated continuously based on insight sessions with both parties. Some engagements move faster when the candidate pool aligns quickly. Others require more time when the criteria are highly specific, and that is entirely appropriate.
Select Date Society works with a limited number of clients at any given time, and our engagements are tailored to the specific requirements of each person. Pricing is discussed during your initial private consultation. To learn more, visit our membership page or contact us directly to arrange a confidential conversation.
While we specialize in serving ultra-high-net-worth and successful singles, our services are available to discerning individuals seeking a professional, confidential matchmaking experience.
Yes, and this is common among our Toronto clients. Many maintain active professional lives across multiple cities. Your matchmaker builds your candidate pool with your actual geography and schedule in mind, sourcing introductions that are viable given how you actually live, not just where your primary address is registered.
Yes. Select Date Society works with high-net-worth clients in Canada, the United Kingdom, Australia, and across Europe, in addition to throughout the United States. Toronto clients are matched within a global network that includes major cities across North America and international markets where our client base is active.
Our clients include CEOs, entrepreneurs, celebrities, athletes, and high-achieving professionals. They are successful, selective individuals seeking serious, lasting relationships and value exclusivity, discretion and efficiency in the dating process.
Completely. Client profiles are never shared in a searchable format, and your personal information is handled exclusively by your matchmaker and their immediate support team. Introductions are coordinated privately and require consent from both parties before any contact information is exchanged.
Once your profile is complete, you’ll connect directly with a Professional Matchmaker for a thoughtful, in-depth strategy sessions. If you’re invited to move forward, you’ll meet with our co-founders, Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, for a private interview. Only those who align with our values and vision are accepted, ensuring our network remains exclusive and highly vetted.
Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.
Most people simply reach out through our inquiry form. We follow up with a private conversation - not rushed, not scripted - just an honest discussion about who you are and what you’re hoping to find. From there, we shape a plan around your lifestyle. Some clients come to us because they’re tired of noise. Others because they want a level of care usually reserved for UHNWI circles or individuals seeking a more intentional form of Millionaire Dating.
Yes, but not in a scripted way. We discuss impressions, uncertainties, pacing — whatever comes up naturally. Many clients say the conversations helped them see patterns or preferences they hadn’t noticed before. Think of it as thoughtful companionship through the process, not coaching in the traditional sense.
There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment… the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.