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Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

Is my information kept private when I inquire?

Absolutely. Your privacy is our top priority. All details you submit are handled with complete confidentiality and are never shared without your explicit consent.

Why is Select Date Society so exclusive?

Exclusivity is at the heart of our success. By carefully selecting clients who align with our values and standards, we maintain a highly vetted, intentional community—ensuring the best possible outcomes for every member.


How soon will I hear back after submitting my inquiry?

You can expect to hear from a member of our Executive Team within a few business days. We take time to review each inquiry thoughtfully to ensure a personalized response.


What areas do you serve?

Select Date Society serves elite singles in top cities and regions across the U.S., including New York City, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Miami, Dallas, Chicago, Washington DC, Boston, Houston, Atlanta, and many more. For a full list of our service areas, please refer to our website or inquire directly.

Who can apply for Select Date Society’s premium matchmaking services?

We welcome inquiries from successful, selective, and professional singles who are ready for a more intentional and exclusive dating experience. Our clients value privacy, high standards, and meaningful connections.

How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.

Who typically becomes a client?

There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment… the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.

Do clients receive guidance or support during the process?

Yes, but not in a scripted way. We discuss impressions, uncertainties, pacing — whatever comes up naturally. Many clients say the conversations helped them see patterns or preferences they hadn’t noticed before. Think of it as thoughtful companionship through the process, not coaching in the traditional sense.