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Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients
Founders Club
Million Dollar Membership (Invite Only)
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
This is Ultra-Exclusive matchmaking. It’s an immersive relationship concierge experience, starting with a private, in-home consultation conducted by the co-founders themselves. No assistants. No delegation.

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton California Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

Who can apply for Select Date Society’s premium matchmaking services?

We welcome inquiries from successful, selective, and professional singles who are ready for a more intentional and exclusive dating experience. Our clients value privacy, high standards, and meaningful connections.

What areas do you serve?

Select Date Society serves elite singles in top cities and regions across the U.S., including New York City, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Miami, Dallas, Chicago, Washington DC, Boston, Houston, Atlanta, and many more. For a full list of our service areas, please refer to our website or inquire directly.

How soon will I hear back after submitting my inquiry?

You can expect to hear from a member of our Executive Team within a few business days. We take time to review each inquiry thoughtfully to ensure a personalized response.


Is my information kept private when I inquire?

Absolutely. Your privacy is our top priority. All details you submit are handled with complete confidentiality and are never shared without your explicit consent.

Why is Select Date Society so exclusive?

Exclusivity is at the heart of our success. By carefully selecting clients who align with our values and standards, we maintain a highly vetted, intentional community—ensuring the best possible outcomes for every member.


Do Matchmaking services actually work?

Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.

How do I get started with Select Date Society for Elite Matchmaking Services?

Simply reach out through our inquiry form to schedule a private consultation. From there, our professional Matchmakers will guide you through the process tailored to your unique needs.

How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.