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Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

Who can apply for Select Date Society’s premium matchmaking services?

We welcome inquiries from successful, selective, and professional singles who are ready for a more intentional and exclusive dating experience. Our clients value privacy, high standards, and meaningful connections.

Is my information kept private when I inquire?

Absolutely. Your privacy is our top priority. All details you submit are handled with complete confidentiality and are never shared without your explicit consent.

Why is Select Date Society so exclusive?

Exclusivity is at the heart of our success. By carefully selecting clients who align with our values and standards, we maintain a highly vetted, intentional community—ensuring the best possible outcomes for every member.


How soon will I hear back after submitting my inquiry?

You can expect to hear from a member of our Executive Team within a few business days. We take time to review each inquiry thoughtfully to ensure a personalized response.


What areas do you serve?

Select Date Society serves elite singles in top cities and regions across the U.S., including New York City, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Miami, Dallas, Chicago, Washington DC, Boston, Houston, Atlanta, and many more. For a full list of our service areas, please refer to our website or inquire directly.

Do Matchmaking services actually work?

Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.

What makes Select Date Society different from typical dating apps?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service exclusively for elite singles. Unlike mass-market apps, we focus on meaningful, vetted introductions tailored to your unique goals and lifestyle.

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.