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Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is my information kept private when I inquire?

Absolutely. Your privacy is our top priority. All details you submit are handled with complete confidentiality and are never shared without your explicit consent.


How soon will I hear back after submitting my inquiry?

You can expect to hear from a member of our Executive Team within a few business days. We take time to review each inquiry thoughtfully to ensure a personalized response.



What areas do you serve?

Select Date Society serves elite singles in top cities and regions across the U.S., including New York City, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Miami, Dallas, Chicago, Washington DC, Boston, Houston, Atlanta, and many more. For a full list of our service areas, please refer to our website or inquire directly.


Who can apply for Select Date Society’s premium matchmaking services?

We welcome inquiries from successful, selective, and professional singles who are ready for a more intentional and exclusive dating experience. Our clients value privacy, high standards, and meaningful connections.


Why is Select Date Society so exclusive?

Exclusivity is at the heart of our success. By carefully selecting clients who align with our values and standards, we maintain a highly vetted, intentional community—ensuring the best possible outcomes for every member.



What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.


How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.


What makes Select Date Society different from traditional or app-based matchmaking?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service for elite singles who want more than algorithms and guesswork. The short version is simple: we’re far more involved. Apps chase volume and traditional agencies often lean on chance. We don’t. We listen carefully, and curate with intention. Our work feels closer to a private advisory service than anything algorithmic. We offer high-end matchmaking with a human touch — subtle, discreet, steady