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Why Use a Luxury Matchmaker in The Hamptons?


Do you live in The Hamptons, NY? Are you an elite single with multiple successes and achievements, but one: finding “The One?” If you answered yes, we offer you luxury matchmaking services in The Hamptons tailored to your needs!


Upscale Matchmaker in The Hamptons


Our high-end matchmaker in The Hamptons is ready to provide you with an affluent and attractive single with services that match your expectations and needs. 

With us, you shall:


  • Meet other successful, elite singles like you.
  • Meet only highly vetted singles who match your tastes and expectations.
  • Save time — we will select an upscale partner, organize your dates, and provide you with insights to ensure that you’re on the road to success.


Our elite matchmaking services in The Hamptons are entirely confidential and no-nonsense, as we understand that privacy and time are the two most important factors for you. What is more, at Select Date Society, you will work only with the finest matchmakers, who have gathered experience in the industry for over 25 years. Our executive team will oversee your membership to best assist you in finding your true soulmate.


The Power of Private, Broad-Reaching Network of Our Matchmakers in The Hamptons


When selecting our services, you won’t meet our other members; instead, our upscale matchmaker in The Hamptons will select your potential partner from our broad-reaching network of elite singles. This way, you can be sure we are fully dedicated to building your success story.


With our extensive network of exceptional singles, you gain access to hundreds of like-minded potential partners whom you wouldn’t have met otherwise. Each is highly vetted before the selection, ensuring you will truly click with the singles you meet. We won’t waste your time—we will assist you in finding the perfect partner while putting you in the driver’s seat!


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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.

What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.

Who typically becomes a client?

There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment… the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.