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Why Use a Luxury Matchmaker in New Haven?


Being the home of Yale University, it should not be surprising that New Haven attracts numerous successful professionals. Yet, finding your other half in this city is still a struggle. Traditional channels lack accuracy and consume much more time, which is especially true for elite singles. However, you can leave that behind and elevate your dating life with Select Date Society’s New Haven matchmakers.


Luxurious New Haven matchmakers – why are they better than standard dating services?


Our luxurious New Haven matchmaking services are characterized by elite, attractive and exclusive singles. You will meet only like-minded dates who have achieved a similar level of success as you. Our high-end matchmakers will cover the entire search process for you – beginning with an interview with you, they will discover what will truly work in your relationship and find the perfect partner. The whole process will be discreet and effortless, and the matches will be based on deep connections, not just shallow similarities, as it is in the case of traditional dating services.


Harvest the experience of our professional New Haven matchmakers!


As an elite single, you deserve the finest service. You can be sure that you will receive proper treatment with us – our New Haven matchmakers have been working in the industry for over 25 years. We know the best practices, and we can share our experience with you during insight sessions throughout your membership. Our expertise has been proven by a plethora of success stories, so if you wish to be in the best hands, Select Date Society’s  New Haven matchmaking service is the right choice.


Millionaire matchmaking in New Haven – based on your potential


Our consideration for membership means one thing – we truly believe in you. You are an attractive, accomplished and wealthy professional with high potential to meet your other half, and you will only date other singles just like you. Whether you are a man or a woman does not make a difference – we treat all our members equally, with their success in mind. So do not hesitate – complete our confidential inquiry form and begin the search for your soulmate with our New Haven matchmakers!


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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

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Northeast
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Midwest
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Southwest
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West
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Frequently Asked Questions

Does matchmaking actually work for people with demanding lifestyles?

In many cases, it works better.

When someone is successful, mobile, or deeply focused on their work, dating becomes harder not easier. Curated private introductions remove the noise. High-achieving clients often tell us they finally met someone who “fits,” because the process was intentional rather than hopeful.

How does Select Date Society screen potential matches?

We speak with every potential match personally. It’s not just about checking boxes; it’s about understanding who they are, how they live, and what they want. This creates higher-quality introductions and ensures genuine compatibility.

Who typically becomes a client?

There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment… the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.