Private, Elite Matchmaking With Guaranteed Quality Introductions

Select Date Society represents elite singles who have achieved success in nearly every area of life and are now taking the same proactive approach to their personal lives. Just as they’ve invested in career and lifestyle, they’ve now prioritized a meaningful relationship. If you’re seeking to connect with high-caliber, successful singles through professional matchmaking, you’re exactly where you need to be.
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This isn’t about dating for the sake of it. It’s about meeting someone who matches your ambition, your outlook, and your readiness... Read More for something real. Our introductions aren’t pulled from apps; they come from a trusted network of accomplished, intentional singles. No endless swiping. No guesswork. You won’t waste time sorting through profiles or second-guessing intentions. Each introduction reflects what matters to you, your values, your lifestyle, and your expectations.
What truly sets us apart is the way we listen. We learn how you live, what you prioritize, and the type of relationship that fits into your world, not just on paper, but in real life. Then, we introduce you to someone who fits into that story. With Select Date Society, you can look forward to dating again with clarity and purpose.
Our clients choose us for results. They seek a private matchmaking service that connects them with professional singles without the wasted time and surface-level small talk. We offer access to a world of executive matchmaking, where introductions are made with precision and every connection brings you closer to the relationship you deserve.
When your time is valuable and you’re ready to meet “The One,” let’s talk. Membership is selective and only extended when our Co-Founders believe in your success. For many, this decision has been truly life-changing. Read Less

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Client Success Stories

Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society, directly from Google.
SDS has provided me the highest level professionalism and personal support in trying to find the perfect person to share my life with. As a busy professional and a person who travels extensively and honestly just not having the time to 'get out there and meet people', especially the 'right'...
John Duva
SDS is an ideal service and Amber in particular is the quintessential professional. She is fully invested in all of her clients and is not satisfied Until she secures a match. I highly recommend her service.
Archie Alston
Working with Select Date Society has been the best decision I ever made! They not only helped me find my future husband but they coached me along the way! Thank you so much for everything!!
Kim Wright
Wonderful dating experience and fantastic, caring team! Fully recommend them!
Richard Eydt
This match making agency understood who I am and what I was looking for in a man I wanted to meet as a future companion. The very first date that Emily found for me was the perfect match. He is a widower who had a successful long marriage like me...
Linda Wenstrand
Amazing! This is the real deal. SDS truly CARES about you and sincerely wants to help you find your partner. Forget all the other methods, and choose people who are vested in helping you. My advisor was so tuned into learning about me and asked serious questions in order to...
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Select Date Society is not just any high-end luxury matchmaker, we set the gold standard for excellence in luxury matchmaking.
At Select Date Society, we specialize in elite matchmaking, dedicated to helping ultra-successful individuals find meaningful,
long-term relationships. Our bespoke approach provides an unparalleled experience through:
Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients

How Do You Get Started?

SDS is incredibly selective in who we choose to represent as a client. All Clients will be vetted prior to membership acceptance. Membership is limited to maintain the quality of our elite matchmaking service and ensure the results-oriented environment of our Firm. Our clients are individuals who have their financial house in order and can invest in their personal life. They are professionals from every industry, including entrepreneurs, C-suite executives to celebrities, doctors and attorneys. They are high-net-worth singles, often referred to as the ultra-wealthy. They have achieved success in their professional life and are now looking to do the same in their personal life. Once our Co-Founders have reviewed your profile, they will personally reach out to you. We look forward to your future success!
Listen to the Co-Founders: Entrepreneurs On Fire Podcast

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach Phoenix San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis
International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai


United Kingdom

London


Italy

Milan


France

Paris


Canada

Toronto

Personalized, Private Matchmaking for Elite Singles

No-nonsense, confidential, and exceptional, these are what define our high-end matchmaking services. We cater to the needs of elite singles through our private matchmaking platform, helping you find love on your terms with someone who truly understands you.
You deserve your own unique love story, one filled with joy, exciting dates, and unforgettable moments.
We’re here to help you create that story at Select Date Society, a trusted name in luxury matchmaking.
At Select Date Society, your happiness and fulfillment are at the heart of everything we do. As upscale matchmakers, we’re dedicated to helping you find the right partner on your terms and at your pace.
We are committed to understanding your unique values, goals, and what truly matters to you in a relationship, beyond just the outcome. We recognize that your vision for love and your preferences are uniquely yours. ... Read More By truly understanding your core values, we can introduce you to someone with whom you can build a meaningful and lasting relationship. We take the time to listen and understand your needs, and then we carefully select other high-caliber, elite singles for curated and exclusive introductions.
We don’t treat you differently based on your gender or goals. Our luxury matchmaking team will always be devoted to finding what’s best for you, a highly vetted, like-minded, upscale single just like you.
Even if your journey in the search for love has been long and arduous, we will quickly smooth it out. With our concierge services, you will be sure that each date is unique, thrilling, and filled with activities that both you and your partner enjoy. You deserve love, and our primary focus is to help you find and nourish it until it becomes a full-fledged, inspiring relationship you deserve.

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the Concierge Matchmaking process work?

Once your profile is complete, you’ll connect directly with a Professional Matchmaker for a thoughtful, in-depth strategy sessions. If you’re invited to move forward, you’ll meet with our co-founders, Amber Lee or Sandra Myers, for a private interview. Only those who align with our values and vision are accepted, ensuring our network remains exclusive and highly vetted.

Is Select Date Society available nationwide or in specific cities only?

We serve clients across the U.S., with a strong presence in major cities like New York, Washington D.C, San Francisco, Palm Beach and Miami. Our services are location-flexible, designed to find exceptional matches wherever your ideal partner may be.

How Much Does Elite Matchmaking Cost?

Pricing for elite matchmaking isn’t one-size-fits-all and with good reason. You’re not just paying for introductions; you’re investing in a highly personalized and discreet service built around your goals, lifestyle, and expectations.



Most luxury matchmaking memberships begin around $75,000, with premium programs ranging into the multiple six figures. The investment reflects the depth of access you receive to curated networks, experienced matchmakers, ongoing guidance, and the priceless time saved in finding the right person without the noise of modern dating.




At the very top of this spectrum sits The Founder’s Club, our most exclusive membership experience. This is personally led by Select Date Society co-founders Amber Lee and Sandra Myers, and represents an investment of $1 million. Designed for one individual at a time, it delivers unparalleled privacy, direct founder involvement, and a truly bespoke approach that extends far beyond traditional matchmaking.

How does Select Date Society support clients throughout their dating journey?

Beyond introductions, our Matchmakers provide strategy sessions, feedback, and ongoing support to help you navigate the dating process with confidence and clarity.

Who are the typical clients Select Date Society works with?

Our clients include CEOs, entrepreneurs, celebrities, athletes, and high-achieving professionals. They are successful, selective individuals seeking serious, lasting relationships and value exclusivity, discretion and efficiency in the dating process.

Do clients receive guidance or support during the process?

Yes, but not in a scripted way. We discuss impressions, uncertainties, pacing — whatever comes up naturally. Many clients say the conversations helped them see patterns or preferences they hadn’t noticed before. Think of it as thoughtful companionship through the process, not coaching in the traditional sense.

What is the typical timeframe for finding a match internationally?

Quality takes time, and international searches can be more complex due to travel schedules. However, because our network consists of intentional, serious professionals, the process is often more efficient than traditional dating. We focus on the right introduction, not just the next one.

Is the vetting process equally rigorous for international members?

Absolutely. Every member, regardless of location, undergoes our signature multi-step screening process. This includes identity verification, background checks, and deep-dive interviews to ensure they meet our standards for ambition, character, and lifestyle.