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Concierge Matchmaking in NYC – Tailored High-End Dating Services for You


In a city where ambition never sleeps and time is the ultimate luxury, finding love in New York can feel daunting. At Select Date Society, we redefine dating for successful professionals, executives, and high-net-worth individuals (HNWIs) through luxury matchmaking in NYC. Our elite matchmaking service is designed to align with your lifestyle, values, and long-term goals.

Unlike dating apps or casual encounters, our high-end matchmaking services are deliberate, private, and highly personalized. With your personal matchmaker guiding every step, introductions are carefully curated to help you find “the one.”


Elite NYC Matchmaking for Those Who Value Results and Discretion


Navigating the dating scene in New York whether on Wall Street, in Tribeca, or the Upper East Side—can feel overwhelming for people who prioritize quality over quantity. That’s why our elite matchmaking in NYC focuses on selectivity, intention, and elevated standards.


Every client receives the dedicated support of an experienced celebrity matchmaker, ensuring that introductions are more than meetings, they’re opportunities for genuine connection.


High-Net-Worth Individuals Dating Services for Professionals & Celebrities


Your career reflects ambition and excellence. Shouldn’t your love life reflect the same? Our upscale dating services in New York are tailored for professionals, entrepreneurs, and executives who expect discretion, strategy, and meaningful results.

We vet every match through a multi-step screening process, prioritizing chemistry, shared ambition, and emotional compatibility. This isn’t random dating, it’s high-end matchmaking with purpose and passion.


Learn more about our values and approach on our About Us page.


Professional Executive Dating Service in New York – Built for Your Success


With over 50 years of combined expertise, Select Date Society is a trusted leader in executive matchmaking services. We know your time is your most valuable asset, and your personal matchmaker ensures it’s spent on meaningful introductions, not wasted on endless swiping.

From Wall Street executives to Broadway professionals and Tribeca entrepreneurs, our clients count on us for introductions that reflect both lifestyle and ambition.


Discretion Meets Distinction – Matchmaking for Executives, Entrepreneurs & Public Figures


Discretion is more than a promise, it’s a foundation. Our upscale matchmaking services are trusted by celebrities, public figures, and C-suite leaders who require privacy as much as they value results.


As a celebrity matchmaker in NYC, we specialize in creating connections that respect both your status and your confidentiality, while delivering introductions of the highest caliber.


Why Our Upscale Matchmaking in NYC Works


We don’t rely on algorithms. Instead, we combine insight, intuition, and experience to create a refined matchmaking process that delivers meaningful results.

Our approach includes:


  • Dedicated support from your personal matchmaker
  • Curated introductions based on lifestyle, goals, and values
  • Post-date feedback and ongoing coaching
  • Adjustments that refine your journey as you go


Who We Serve


Our matchmaking for professionals is designed for:


  • Business executives and entrepreneurs
  • High-net-worth individuals (HNWIs)
  • Celebrities and public figures
  • Sophisticated singles tired of casual dating apps


Explore your options by reviewing our Membership plans.


Concierge Matchmaking in NYC That Sets a New Standard


When New York doesn’t slow down, we help you press pause, where it matters most. Our high-end dating services provide clarity, exclusivity, and strategy in a city that never sleeps.

With national recognition and countless success stories, Select Date Society is more than a matchmaking agency, we are the gold standard in high-end matchmaking.


Ready to Start Your Upscale Dating Journey in NYC?


If endless swiping and casual introductions aren’t delivering results, it’s time for a better way. With our elite matchmaking service, you gain:


  • A process that’s private and purposeful
  • A team that’s strategic and supportive
  • A dating journey that’s refined, exclusive, and real


Because when it comes to love, you deserve nothing less than excellence. 


Start your journey today by connecting with a Select Date Society.

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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

Servicing Areas

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New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes concierge matchmaking in New York different from dating apps?

Dating apps are built around swiping and volume — you scroll through endless profiles hoping for chemistry. Our approach is the opposite. We focus on quality, not quantity. Every introduction is hand-selected, private, and intentional, with the goal of helping two people connect in a meaningful way. It’s personal, not transactional.

How long does it usually take to meet the right match through your Elite NYC Matchmaking Service?

Every story is different, and love doesn’t follow a clock. That said, most of our clients begin meeting thoughtfully matched introductions within a few months. Along the way, your matchmaker will guide, adjust, and refine to make sure each introduction brings you closer to the right connection.

How do you protect the privacy of high-profile clients in New York?

Discretion is absolutely essential. Everything we do from your first conversation with us to every introduction is handled with complete confidentiality. Many of our clients are public figures, so we’ve built our entire process around privacy and trust.

Who typically works with high-end matchmaking services in New York?

Our clients are accomplished, busy people — executives, entrepreneurs, creatives, and high-profile professionals who value their time. They don’t want to waste energy on endless first dates or casual encounters. They come to us because they want a straightforward path to someone who truly fits their life and vision for the future.

How is Select Date Society different from traditional matchmaking?

We combine decades of industry experience with modern, personalized strategies. Our approach focuses on quality over quantity and offers ongoing coaching to empower your dating journey.

What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.