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Concierge Matchmaking in NYC – Tailored High-End Dating Services for You


At Select Date Society, our exclusive New York matchmaking services are specifically designed for successful professionals, high-net-worth individuals (HNWIs), and other elite singles in the city who value discretion and results. In a fast-paced city like New York, finding a partner who truly aligns with your values, lifestyle, and ambitions can be daunting. That’s where we come in.


In a bustling metropolis like New York, navigating the dating scene can feel overwhelming. Our concierge-level dating services in NYC are meticulously crafted to save you valuable time, significantly enhance your opportunities to meet exceptional individuals, and provide the high level of exclusivity that successful people like you expect. As a member of Select Date Society, you’ll receive the personalized attention of our expert NYC matchmakers, who will curate every introduction with your specific desires in mind.


Our high-end dating services in New York are for professionals who appreciate discretion and value meaningful connections over casual encounters. We ensure that each match is highly vetted, ensuring compatibility in every aspect from shared ambitions to emotional alignment. Whether you're looking for a millionaire match or a relationship that reflects your level of success, our elite matchmaking services in New York will exceed your expectations. 


We also share expert dating advice and matchmaking insights to help you navigate your journey toward a fulfilling relationship.


Professional Executive Dating Service in New York – NYC Matchmakers That Will Care for Your Success


With over 50 years of combined matchmaking experience, our team at Select Date Society offers a professional executive dating service in New York that caters to your specific needs. We understand that as a successful professional, your time is precious, and finding the right partner is about more than just a profile it’s about the right connection.


Our NYC matchmakers are dedicated to creating personalized, meaningful introductions that align with your goals, lifestyle, and relationship expectations. Whether you're looking for elite matchmaking services or a match that’s in line with your high-net-worth lifestyle, we take pride in delivering results.


From your first consultation to the moment you meet “The One,” we are committed to supporting you throughout your entire dating journey. If you’re curious about how our matchmaking process works, our Matchmaker FAQ covers the most common questions we receive.


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Client Success Stories

Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

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Northeast
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Southeast
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Midwest
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Southwest
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West
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Frequently Asked Questions

How is Select Date Society different from traditional matchmaking?

We combine decades of industry experience with modern, personalized strategies. Our approach focuses on quality over quantity and offers ongoing coaching to empower your dating journey.

Do Matchmaking services actually work?

Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.

Is my privacy protected?

Absolutely. Confidentiality is our top priority. We use NDAs, secure communication, and strict data handling protocols to ensure your personal information remains private at all times.