Every story is different, and love doesn’t follow a clock. That said, most of our clients begin meeting thoughtfully matched introductions within a few months. Along the way, your matchmaker will guide, adjust, and refine to make sure each introduction brings you closer to the right connection.
Dating apps are built around swiping and volume — you scroll through endless profiles hoping for chemistry. Our approach is the opposite. We focus on quality, not quantity. Every introduction is hand-selected, private, and intentional, with the goal of helping two people connect in a meaningful way. It’s personal, not transactional.
Our clients are accomplished, busy people — executives, entrepreneurs, creatives, and high-profile professionals who value their time. They don’t want to waste energy on endless first dates or casual encounters. They come to us because they want a straightforward path to someone who truly fits their life and vision for the future.
Discretion is absolutely essential. Everything we do from your first conversation with us to every introduction is handled with complete confidentiality. Many of our clients are public figures, so we’ve built our entire process around privacy and trust.
Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.
They prefer boutiques that understand their world — its pace, its expectations, its risks. Select Date Society is often the choice for Elite Matchmaking because the work is quiet, curated, and grounded in reality. It’s private introductions designed for people who need more than a list of names. It's an elevated approach built for those who move through life at a different altitude.
Most people simply reach out through our inquiry form. We follow up with a private conversation - not rushed, not scripted - just an honest discussion about who you are and what you’re hoping to find. From there, we shape a plan around your lifestyle. Some clients come to us because they’re tired of noise. Others because they want a level of care usually reserved for UHNWI circles or individuals seeking a more intentional form of Millionaire Dating.