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Charleston is one of those rare cities where deep-seated history and high-octane ambition actually live side-by-side. You see it everywhere—from the quiet, cobblestone charm of the South of Broad district to the fast-moving tech world of the "Silicon Harbor." It’s a place defined by a unique mix of Southern grace and modern enterprise. But honestly? For people at the top of their game, finding a partner who truly "gets" that world is often harder than closing a major deal.


At Select Date Society, we treat your personal life with the same level of intentionality you give your career. Our elite matchmaking service is designed to align with your lifestyle, values, and long-term vision. We provide bespoke matchmaking for exclusive individuals who refuse to settle for anything less than a partner who matches their drive and sophistication.


Lowcountry Introductions That Value Your Privacy


Dating in the Lowcountry isn't always easy, especially when you’re looking for quality over a high volume of shallow encounters. Whether you’re a regular in the French Quarter or you prefer the private, coastal luxury of Sullivan’s Island, you need a process that actually respects your boundaries.


Every client we work with receives the dedicated support of an experienced matchmaker, ensuring that introductions are more than just "meetings"—they are real opportunities for genuine connection. By maintaining a private approach to matchmaking for exclusive communities, we provide a sanctuary for Charleston’s most prominent singles to find love away from the public eye.


Intentional Dating Built for Professionals with Purpose


You’ve spent years building a career on excellence; it only makes sense that your search for a partner follows that same standard. Our upscale dating services in South Carolina are built for the leaders and entrepreneurs who are finished with the guesswork of modern apps.


We vet every potential match through a multi-step screening process, prioritizing chemistry, shared ambition, and emotional compatibility. We offer matchmaking services for exclusive professionals who understand that their time is their most valuable asset and want to spend it on high-caliber introductions.


Why the Charleston Process Actually Works


We don't leave your future to a cold algorithm. Instead, we rely on human intuition and a refined process that puts your needs first:


  • One-on-One Support: You are never navigating this alone; your personal matchmaker stays with you through every step.
  • Curated Introductions: We hand-pick matches based on deep-seated values and lifestyle goals.
  • Concierge Planning: We handle all the logistics and reservations so you can focus entirely on the person sitting across from you.
  • Honest Feedback: After every date, we help you refine the search until we find exactly what you are looking for.

Ready to Start Your Next Chapter in Charleston?


If you are tired of the noise and ready for a more intentional approach, let's change the way you meet people. Imagine a sunset sail along the Battery or a private dinner in a historic courtyard with someone who truly understands your world.


Start your journey today by connecting with Select Date Society.

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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

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Northeast
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Southeast
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Southwest
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West
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Midwest
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Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Select Date Society different from traditional or app-based matchmaking?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service for elite singles who want more than algorithms and guesswork. The short version is simple: we’re far more involved. Apps chase volume and traditional agencies often lean on chance. We don’t. We listen carefully, and curate with intention. Our work feels closer to a private advisory service than anything algorithmic. We offer high-end matchmaking with a human touch — subtle, discreet, steady

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.

Who do Millionaires and Billionaires trust for matchmaking?

They prefer boutiques that understand their world — its pace, its expectations, its risks. Select Date Society is often the choice for Elite Matchmaking because the work is quiet, curated, and grounded in reality. It’s private introductions designed for people who need more than a list of names. It's an elevated approach built for those who move through life at a different altitude.