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Select Date Society
Nationwide Executive Matchmaking Firm Headquartered in Richmond, Virginia
919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000
Richmond, Virginia, 23219
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Dating today is more complicated than ever and no one understands that better than we do. Every day, we speak with intelligent, selective, successful singles who feel frustrated with modern dating. They've been told they’re “too picky” or “not trying hard enough,” often by people who haven’t dated in a decade and have no idea how the landscape has changed.
Here’s the truth: when you’ve worked hard to build a successful life, ... Read More you should never feel guilty about wanting more from your personal life, too.
At Select Date Society, we offer a distinctive and superior approach to finding meaningful connections. We provide a private, personalized, and proven path to connect with quality, commitment-minded singles who value discretion, shared values, and lasting compatibility. You outsource in business, and you hire experts in law, finance, health, and wellness. We believe the same mindset should apply to something as important as love.
We’ve built deep relationships across the country with the kind of individuals you want to meet educated, accomplished, emotionally available professionals who are truly ready for a long-term relationship. Our team uses these connections to create powerful matches for clients who are serious about their outcome and selective about the journey.
We don’t cast a wide net. We cast a precise one. And we only take on clients we believe we can genuinely help. If you're ready to invest in your personal life the way you have in every other area this is your moment. This is your match.
Take the first step by completing the brief inquiry form below. We review every submission carefully, and if we believe it’s a strong fit, one of our Professional Matchmakers will be in touch to schedule a confidential conversation. You deserve a luxury dating experience and we’re ready when you are. Read Less

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society, directly from Google.
Amber and her team are the epitome of perfection! They listen and go above and beyond. I would certainly recommend Select Date Society for anyone looking for prompt and professional services.
Sonya Durham
Working with Select Date Society has been the best decision I ever made! They not only helped me find my future husband but they coached me along the way! Thank you so much for everything!!
Kim Wright
Fantastic staff and and a very thorough intake to ensure successful matches.
Jaeson Rosa
I spent two years serial dating using dating apps which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire Select Date Society. I was a "one and done" as my matchmaker likes to say. Raf was my first and only match. I knew within a few dates that he was the...
Lindsay Culkin
Select date society has been one of the best investments and experiences of my life. Sandra really took the time to ask me details about my background and what I’m specifically looking for! I highly recommend this company if your looking for very successful, stable individuals who really want a...
Jean E
All I have to say is this company is the real deal!!! I came to Sandra thinking I would never have a family of my own with my previous relationships! I had the assumption that I would be single forever. I was trying to check the boxes and it was...
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Frequently Asked Questions

What should I expect after contacting Select Date Society?

After your inquiry, you will be contacted by a Matchmaker who will discuss your goals, values, and expectations. We only accept clients we believe we can genuinely help, ensuring a high-quality, results-driven experience.


How can I get in touch with Select Date Society?

You can reach us by phone at (877) 344-9544 or visit us at our headquarters: 919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000, Richmond, VA 23219.

We are a nationwide executive matchmaking firm serving clients across the U.S.

Why should I use a professional matchmaker instead of dating apps?

Dating apps often rely on algorithms and volume, which can lead to wasted time and frustration. Our service is tailored, intentional, and relationship-focused, giving you access to a vetted network of singles who meet your standards and are serious about commitment.


How does Select Date Society support clients throughout their dating journey?

Beyond introductions, our Matchmakers provide strategy sessions, feedback, and ongoing support to help you navigate the dating process with confidence and clarity.

Can I speak directly with a Matchmaker before committing?

Yes. We encourage open, confidential conversations to ensure our services align with your needs before you make any commitment.


How do I get started with Select Date Society for Elite Matchmaking Services?

Simply reach out through our inquiry form to schedule a private consultation. From there, our professional Matchmakers will guide you through the process tailored to your unique needs.

How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.

Is my privacy protected?

Absolutely. Confidentiality is our top priority. We use NDAs, secure communication, and strict data handling protocols to ensure your personal information remains private at all times.