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Select Date Society
International Executive Matchmaking Firm Headquartered in Richmond, Virginia
919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000
Richmond, Virginia, 23219
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Dating today is more complicated than ever and no one understands that better than we do. Every day, we speak with intelligent, selective, successful singles who feel frustrated with modern dating. They've been told they’re “too picky” or “not trying hard enough,” often by people who haven’t dated in a decade and have no idea how the landscape has changed.
Here’s the truth: when you’ve worked hard to build a successful life, ... Read More you should never feel guilty about wanting more from your personal life, too.
At Select Date Society, we offer a distinctive and superior approach to finding meaningful connections. We provide a private, personalized, and proven path to connect with quality, commitment-minded singles who value discretion, shared values, and lasting compatibility. You outsource in business, and you hire experts in law, finance, health, and wellness. We believe the same mindset should apply to something as important as love.
We’ve built deep relationships across the country with the kind of individuals you want to meet educated, accomplished, emotionally available professionals who are truly ready for a long-term relationship. Our team uses these connections to create powerful matches for clients who are serious about their outcome and selective about the journey.
We don’t cast a wide net. We cast a precise one. And we only take on clients we believe we can genuinely help. If you're ready to invest in your personal life the way you have in every other area this is your moment. This is your match.
Take the first step by completing the brief inquiry form below. We review every submission carefully, and if we believe it’s a strong fit, one of our Professional Matchmakers will be in touch to schedule a confidential conversation. You deserve a luxury dating experience and we’re ready when you are. Read Less

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society, directly from Google.
Simply put, my matchmaker walks on water! She has boundless energy and is a tireless worker on my behalf. Most importantly, she has an intuition and a gift for finding potential matches. I am so fortunate I found her. She is an indispensable member of the SDS team!
Douglas Carl
Divorced and in my 40s, dating after so many years was almost unimaginable. I was told about a private matchmaking firm that was working with a minimal number of clients and I decided to reach out. I immediately felt comfortable and knew they understood how uncomfortable this call was for...
Debbie Sheffield
Wonderful dating experience and fantastic, caring team! Fully recommend them!
Richard Eydt
My experience with SDS has been absolutely First Class. This is a team that not only has the experience, expertise and contacts to be very successful, but also takes time to ask thoughtful questions and have real human conversations. The SDS way of making introductions and encouraging connections is life-changing...
Dan Zimmerman
I truly believe Sandra has a gift and is the real deal! I’m SO glad I took the chance and met with her as I was reluctant. It has been 10 years since I had a meaningful relationship! She was very nice, genuine and did not rush or push me...
Gemma Francisco
Select Date Society is very professional, friendly, and works hard to find the right match not just any match. Recommend highly.
Travis Johnson
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Northeast
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Southeast
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Southwest
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West
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Midwest
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Canada

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Frequently Asked Questions

What should I expect after contacting Select Date Society?

After your inquiry, you will be contacted by a Matchmaker who will discuss your goals, values, and expectations. We only accept clients we believe we can genuinely help, ensuring a high-quality, results-driven experience.


Can I speak directly with a Matchmaker before committing?

Yes. We encourage open, confidential conversations to ensure our services align with your needs before you make any commitment.


Why should I use a professional matchmaker instead of dating apps?

Dating apps often rely on algorithms and volume, which can lead to wasted time and frustration. Our service is tailored, intentional, and relationship-focused, giving you access to a vetted network of singles who meet your standards and are serious about commitment.


How can I get in touch with Select Date Society?

You can reach us by phone at (877) 344-9544 or visit us at our headquarters: 919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000, Richmond, VA 23219.

We are a nationwide executive matchmaking firm serving clients across the U.S.

How does Select Date Society support clients throughout their dating journey?

Beyond introductions, our Matchmakers provide strategy sessions, feedback, and ongoing support to help you navigate the dating process with confidence and clarity.

How do I get started if I live outside of the United States?

The process begins with a private, virtual consultation. We’ll discuss your lifestyle, your "must-haves," and your global footprint. From there, we’ll determine if our elite network is the right fit for your international search.

Does matchmaking actually work for people with demanding lifestyles?

In many cases, it works better.

When someone is successful, mobile, or deeply focused on their work, dating becomes harder not easier. Curated private introductions remove the noise. High-achieving clients often tell us they finally met someone who “fits,” because the process was intentional rather than hopeful.

Does Select Date Society serve clients internationally?

Yes, often. Many of our clients live between cities or between continents. So global matchmaking is simply part of the rhythm here. We use an international network, personal relationships, and private recruitment to find candidates in places where typical agencies don’t operate.