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Select Date Society
International Executive Matchmaking Firm Headquartered in Richmond, Virginia
919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000
Richmond, Virginia, 23219
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Dating today is more complicated than ever and no one understands that better than we do. Every day, we speak with intelligent, selective, successful singles who feel frustrated with modern dating. They've been told they’re “too picky” or “not trying hard enough,” often by people who haven’t dated in a decade and have no idea how the landscape has changed.
Here’s the truth: when you’ve worked hard to build a successful life, ... Read More you should never feel guilty about wanting more from your personal life, too.
At Select Date Society, we offer a distinctive and superior approach to finding meaningful connections. We provide a private, personalized, and proven path to connect with quality, commitment-minded singles who value discretion, shared values, and lasting compatibility. You outsource in business, and you hire experts in law, finance, health, and wellness. We believe the same mindset should apply to something as important as love.
We’ve built deep relationships across the country with the kind of individuals you want to meet educated, accomplished, emotionally available professionals who are truly ready for a long-term relationship. Our team uses these connections to create powerful matches for clients who are serious about their outcome and selective about the journey.
We don’t cast a wide net. We cast a precise one. And we only take on clients we believe we can genuinely help. If you're ready to invest in your personal life the way you have in every other area this is your moment. This is your match.
Take the first step by completing the brief inquiry form below. We review every submission carefully, and if we believe it’s a strong fit, one of our Professional Matchmakers will be in touch to schedule a confidential conversation. You deserve a luxury dating experience and we’re ready when you are. Read Less

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Can you put a price on love? I think not. As a busy, successful woman, it was nice to 'outsource' my dating life. But more important than saving me time (and headaches), Select Date Society worked with me closely to educate me on what kind of man, I NEED. I`m...
Renee Rouleau
My experience with SDS has been awesome! They are the best. I am 100% happy with my experience. My time spent with SDS has provided me with dating insight. The best tips and advice to create and build a happy partnership. 10 outta 10 rec
Stacy Zeiler
I`ve had a great experience with Select Date Society and I feel the team has supported my dating goals 100%. I have referred friends who want top of the line service without the pain of bad set ups.
Peter H
I spent two years serial dating using dating apps which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire Select Date Society. I was a "one and done" as my matchmaker likes to say. Raf was my first and only match. I knew within a few dates that he was the...
Lindsay Culkin
I was hesitant at first as I didn’t know what to expect since I never worked with a matchmaker before and this company came highly recommended. I spoke with Sandra and from the very first moment felt truly connected to her! I felt as though she knew me my entire...
Natalie Chacon
My experience with SDS has been absolutely First Class. This is a team that not only has the experience, expertise and contacts to be very successful, but also takes time to ask thoughtful questions and have real human conversations. The SDS way of making introductions and encouraging connections is life-changing...
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Frequently Asked Questions

How can I get in touch with Select Date Society?

You can reach us by phone at (877) 344-9544 or visit us at our headquarters: 919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000, Richmond, VA 23219.

We are a nationwide executive matchmaking firm serving clients across the U.S.

Why should I use a professional matchmaker instead of dating apps?

Dating apps often rely on algorithms and volume, which can lead to wasted time and frustration. Our service is tailored, intentional, and relationship-focused, giving you access to a vetted network of singles who meet your standards and are serious about commitment.


What should I expect after contacting Select Date Society?

After your inquiry, you will be contacted by a Matchmaker who will discuss your goals, values, and expectations. We only accept clients we believe we can genuinely help, ensuring a high-quality, results-driven experience.


Can I speak directly with a Matchmaker before committing?

Yes. We encourage open, confidential conversations to ensure our services align with your needs before you make any commitment.


How does Select Date Society support clients throughout their dating journey?

Beyond introductions, our Matchmakers provide strategy sessions, feedback, and ongoing support to help you navigate the dating process with confidence and clarity.

What if I am open to relocating or looking for someone willing to move?

This is a primary focus during our initial consultation. Many of our clients have the flexibility to relocate for the right person. We prioritize matching you with individuals whose long-term visions including where they want to call home align with yours.

Who typically becomes a client?

There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment and the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s a preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.

Is Select Date Society only for celebrities or ultra-high-net-worth individuals?

While we specialize in serving ultra-high-net-worth and successful singles, our services are available to discerning individuals seeking a professional, confidential matchmaking experience.