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Select Date Society
International Executive Matchmaking Firm Headquartered in Richmond, Virginia
919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000
Richmond, Virginia, 23219
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Dating today is more complicated than ever and no one understands that better than we do. Every day, we speak with intelligent, selective, successful singles who feel frustrated with modern dating. They've been told they’re “too picky” or “not trying hard enough,” often by people who haven’t dated in a decade and have no idea how the landscape has changed.
Here’s the truth: when you’ve worked hard to build a successful life, ... Read More you should never feel guilty about wanting more from your personal life, too.
At Select Date Society, we offer a distinctive and superior approach to finding meaningful connections. We provide a private, personalized, and proven path to connect with quality, commitment-minded singles who value discretion, shared values, and lasting compatibility. You outsource in business, and you hire experts in law, finance, health, and wellness. We believe the same mindset should apply to something as important as love.
We’ve built deep relationships across the country with the kind of individuals you want to meet educated, accomplished, emotionally available professionals who are truly ready for a long-term relationship. Our team uses these connections to create powerful matches for clients who are serious about their outcome and selective about the journey.
We don’t cast a wide net. We cast a precise one. And we only take on clients we believe we can genuinely help. If you're ready to invest in your personal life the way you have in every other area this is your moment. This is your match.
Take the first step by completing the brief inquiry form below. We review every submission carefully, and if we believe it’s a strong fit, one of our Professional Matchmakers will be in touch to schedule a confidential conversation. You deserve a luxury dating experience and we’re ready when you are. Read Less

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society, directly from Google.
Can you put a price on love? I think not. As a busy, successful woman, it was nice to 'outsource' my dating life. But more important than saving me time (and headaches), Select Date Society worked with me closely to educate me on what kind of man, I NEED. I`m...
Renee Rouleau
This process with Select Date Society has been AMAZING! My matchmaker was professional, enthusiastic, and really listened to what I am looking for in a partner. She made me feel comfortable with everything and showed me high-quality men. I highly recommend Select Date Society.
Amber Nabors
Simply put, my matchmaker walks on water! She has boundless energy and is a tireless worker on my behalf. Most importantly, she has an intuition and a gift for finding potential matches. I am so fortunate I found her. She is an indispensable member of the SDS team!
Douglas Carl
Marina is fantastic! She takes the time to really get to know you as a person and builds a profile that reflects who I am looking for. She already found someone for me. I am excited to see where it goes!
Joshua LaBaer
Working with Select Date Society has been the best decision I ever made! They not only helped me find my future husband but they coached me along the way! Thank you so much for everything!!
Kim Wright
This match making agency understood who I am and what I was looking for in a man I wanted to meet as a future companion. The very first date that Emily found for me was the perfect match. He is a widower who had a successful long marriage like me...
Linda Wenstrand
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Canada

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Frequently Asked Questions

What should I expect after contacting Select Date Society?

After your inquiry, you will be contacted by a Matchmaker who will discuss your goals, values, and expectations. We only accept clients we believe we can genuinely help, ensuring a high-quality, results-driven experience.


How does Select Date Society support clients throughout their dating journey?

Beyond introductions, our Matchmakers provide strategy sessions, feedback, and ongoing support to help you navigate the dating process with confidence and clarity.

Can I speak directly with a Matchmaker before committing?

Yes. We encourage open, confidential conversations to ensure our services align with your needs before you make any commitment.


How can I get in touch with Select Date Society?

You can reach us by phone at (877) 344-9544 or visit us at our headquarters: 919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000, Richmond, VA 23219.

We are a nationwide executive matchmaking firm serving clients across the U.S.

Why should I use a professional matchmaker instead of dating apps?

Dating apps often rely on algorithms and volume, which can lead to wasted time and frustration. Our service is tailored, intentional, and relationship-focused, giving you access to a vetted network of singles who meet your standards and are serious about commitment.


What if I am open to relocating or looking for someone willing to move?

This is a primary focus during our initial consultation. Many of our clients have the flexibility to relocate for the right person. We prioritize matching you with individuals whose long-term visions including where they want to call home align with yours.

How does Select Date Society screen potential matches?

We speak with every potential match personally. It’s not just about checking boxes; it’s about understanding who they are, how they live, and what they want. This creates higher-quality introductions and ensures genuine compatibility.

Do I need to be located in a specific city to join?

Not at all. While we have strong presences in hubs like London, Sydney, and New York, our network is truly global. We work with high-net-worth individuals and executives who often split their time between multiple continents. We meet you where you are.