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Luxury Matchmaking in Silicon Valley: Where Elite Singles Find Lasting Love


Silicon Valley is home to some of the world’s most brilliant, successful, and high-achieving individuals. But when it comes to finding someone who truly matches your values, ambition, and lifestyle it’s more complicated than ever. That’s where Select Date Society steps in. Our elite Silicon Valley matchmakers specialize in connecting affluent, relationship-minded singles ready for meaningful, lasting love.


Millionaire Matchmaker for Silicon Valley’s Elite


You’ve built a life of excellence why settle for average when it comes to love? At Select Date Society, we work exclusively with successful, accomplished singles who value depth, compatibility, and shared ambition. Our professional matchmakers in Silicon Valley get to know your goals and vet potential matches who meet your standards intellectually, emotionally, and professionally.

When you choose our luxury matchmaking services, you’re not wasting time on random swipes or shallow chats. Instead, you’re introduced to exceptional individuals who complement your lifestyle and aspirations. With us, your next relationship won’t be left to chance it will be curated with purpose.


Discreet, Private & Personalized: Matchmaking That Respects You


We understand your desire for privacy, discretion, and service that respects your time and values. From your initial inquiry to your final match, everything we do is tailored and confidential. Our Silicon Valley matchmakers operate with the utmost professionalism ensuring that you feel seen, understood, and supported at every stage.

Your matches come from an exclusive, hand-selected pool of elite singles individuals who mirror your ambition, elegance, and emotional maturity. You’re not just meeting someone attractive you’re meeting someone who truly aligns with your life.


Why Choose Select Date Society?


With over 25 years of experience in luxury matchmaking, Select Date Society is recognized as one of the nation’s premier dating concierge services. Our Silicon Valley team brings unmatched expertise and an expansive network of high-net-worth, commitment-ready singles. Our services are fully personalized and include high-touch support, professional dating coaching, and full concierge support throughout your membership.


We don’t just introduce you to someone impressive, we help you build a relationship that lasts. Start your journey today by filling out our confidential inquiry form, and experience dating that meets your standards.


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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
Founders Club
Million Dollar Membership (Invite Only)
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
This is Ultra-Exclusive matchmaking. It’s an immersive relationship concierge experience, starting with a private, in-home consultation conducted by the co-founders themselves. No assistants. No delegation.

Client Success Stories

Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do you find a professional matchmaker?

At Select Date Society, we recommend starting with trusted referrals or searching for matchmakers who specialize in elite, personalized matchmaking. Look for proven experience, strong privacy standards, and a hands-on approach. Book a consultation to ensure their process aligns with your expectations. Transparency and confidentiality are key qualities. Select Date Society proudly upholds to help you find meaningful connections with discretion and care.

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.

How do I get started with Select Date Society for Elite Matchmaking Services?

Simply reach out through our inquiry form to schedule a private consultation. From there, our professional Matchmakers will guide you through the process tailored to your unique needs.