Exclusive Matchmaking for Elite, Successful, and Accomplished Singles in the U.S. and Worldwide
Welcome to The Founders Club — our most exclusive offering, reserved for a single visionary at a time.
This is not a program. It is not a service. It is not a course. It is a partnership. A carefully cultivated alliance with the power to influence not only your personal life, but the future you build and the legacy you leave behind.
The Founders Club is the pinnacle of exclusive, personalized luxury matchmaking. With a $1 million membership investment, experience elite matchmaking created for a select few who value privacy, excellence, and a deeply individualized approach to finding love. This extraordinary partnership offers an unmatched level of discretion, strategic guidance, and founder-led support. Every detail is intentionally curated to deliver a relationship search as exceptional as the life you have built.
Personally led by Co-Founders Sandra and Amber, who bring more than 50 years of combined matchmaking and relationship expertise, this membership is extended to one client at a time, by qualification only.
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Over the years, they have worked with executives, entrepreneurs, investors, celebrities, professional athletes, public figures, and high-net-worth individuals across the United States and internationally.
Membership is intentionally limited and extended only to individuals who meet our highly selective membership standards, preserving the exceptional level of discretion, personalization, and dedicated support that defines The Founders Club.
At this level, there is no waiting list. There is no formula. There is only you and our co-founders, working together toward one goal: finding the right partner for the next chapter of your life.
Why The Founders Club Exists
Over the years, Sandra and Amber encountered situations that extended beyond the scope of traditional matchmaking.
Individuals whose privacy requirements were extraordinary. Lives that spanned multiple cities, industries, and countries. People whose schedules, visibility, or personal circumstances required a level of attention beyond a conventional matchmaking engagement.
The Founders Club was created specifically for those circumstances.
By limiting membership to one active client at a time, Sandra and Amber are able to devote their complete attention, network, experience, and judgment to a single search.
The result is a level of focus that simply cannot be replicated at scale.
Personally Led by Sandra and Amber
At most matchmaking firms, clients work with a team.
The Founders Club is different.
Sandra and Amber remain personally involved from the initial consultation through every introduction that follows.
There are no handoffs. No account managers. No layers between you and the people responsible for your search.
Every important conversation, strategic decision, and introduction remains under their direct guidance.
Their reputation has been built through decades of experience, discretion, and an ability to understand people beyond what appears on paper.
Their network extends across major cities throughout the United States and internationally, creating opportunities that are often unavailable through traditional matchmaking channels.
The Founders Club allows them to bring that experience, judgment, and network to one individual at a time.
The Founders Club Experience
Every journey begins privately, often in the comfort of your home or another setting of your choosing.
It is not an assistant or consultant who arrives.
It is Sandra and Amber.
Your first conversations are not focused on profiles, preferences, or checklists. They are focused on understanding who you are beyond your accomplishments.
Your values.
Your experiences.
The relationships that have shaped your life.
The future you hope to build.
When appropriate, Sandra and Amber may also spend time with trusted friends, family members, or advisors who know you well and can provide valuable perspective. These conversations are never about approval or decision-making. They are about developing a deeper understanding of the qualities and dynamics that contribute to a lasting partnership.
Before a single introduction is made, the objective is simple: to understand you completely.
From there, introductions are sourced through the founders' carefully cultivated national and international network and evaluated through the same rigorous standards that define Select Date Society.
Potential introductions are never reduced to a profile, résumé, or list of accomplishments.
Each person is considered within the context of your life, your values, your ambitions, and the future you hope to create.
The process is deliberate.
It is selective.
And it is deeply personal.
We would rather make no introduction than make the wrong introduction.
Who The Founders Club Serves
The Founders Club was created for individuals whose achievements place them in rare company, yet who understand that success alone does not create a meaningful life.
Members often include:
  • Founders, entrepreneurs, and business owners
  • CEOs, executives, and industry leaders
  • Investors and family office principals
  • Celebrities, athletes, entertainers, and public figures
  • High-net-worth and ultra-high-net-worth individuals
  • Individuals who value discretion, privacy, and exceptional personal attention
Every membership is considered on its own merits.
Selectivity ensures that every introduction reflects the standards, expectations, and lifestyle of the individual we serve.
The Commitment
Membership in The Founders Club is not offered widely.
Membership represents far more than access.
It reflects a commitment to approaching one of life's most important decisions with the same level of care, thought, and intention that has contributed to success in every other area of life.
Long after professional achievements fade into the background, the quality of your relationships remains.
The person you choose to share your life with will influence not only your happiness, but your family, your experiences, and the generations that follow.
Few decisions carry greater significance.
What Membership Includes
Membership includes:
  • Direct involvement from Sandra and Amber throughout the engagement
  • Founder-led matchmaking strategy and relationship guidance
  • Private in-home consultations and personal discovery sessions
  • Access to a carefully cultivated national and international matchmaking network of accomplished professionals, executives, entrepreneurs, investors, and other highly accomplished individuals
  • Introductions sourced through trusted relationships and referrals
  • Ongoing support and counsel throughout the process
  • White-glove communication and coordination
  • Exceptional confidentiality and discretion at every stage
Why The Founders Club Is Different
Most matchmaking firms are structured to serve many clients simultaneously.
The Founders Club was built differently.
Membership is intentionally limited to one active client at a time, allowing Sandra and Amber to devote their complete attention, network, and expertise to a single search.
Confidentiality is not simply a promise. It is a discipline reinforced through decades of experience, carefully managed introductions, and long-standing trust.
Our reach extends far beyond local markets, creating access to opportunities and introductions that are often unavailable through traditional channels.
Most importantly, the relationship does not end with an introduction.
As circumstances evolve, goals change, and relationships develop, Sandra and Amber remain available to provide guidance, perspective, and support.
Membership Consideration
Founders Club membership is offered only when there is mutual alignment.
Because the engagement is limited to one active client at a time, Sandra and Amber personally review every inquiry to determine whether they can provide the level of focus, discretion, and involvement the membership requires.
Not every applicant will be accepted.
Those who are invited into The Founders Club gain access to a level of founder involvement, personal attention, and commitment intentionally unavailable at scale.
Begin the Conversation
Your journey begins with a private consultation conducted directly with Sandra and Amber.
A conversation.
Nothing more.
And perhaps, the beginning of everything that follows.
Because membership is offered by qualification only, every inquiry is personally reviewed by the founders themselves.
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Important Notice:
This application is exclusively for The Founders Club Membership. Please proceed only if you are interested in exploring this level of membership. If you are seeking one of our other matchmaking programs, please visit our general inquiry page.

Servicing Areas

International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai


United Kingdom

London


Italy

Milan


France

Paris


Canada

Toronto

Frequently Asked Questions

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.


What if I am open to relocating or looking for someone willing to move?

This is a primary focus during our initial consultation. Many of our clients have the flexibility to relocate for the right person. We prioritize matching you with individuals whose long-term visions including where they want to call home align with yours.


What makes Select Date Society different from traditional or app-based matchmaking?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service for elite singles who want more than algorithms and guesswork. The short version is simple: we’re far more involved. Apps chase volume and traditional agencies often lean on chance. We don’t. We listen carefully, and curate with intention. Our work feels closer to a private advisory service than anything algorithmic. We offer high-end matchmaking with a human touch — subtle, discreet, steady