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Select Date Society
International Executive Matchmaking Firm Headquartered in Richmond, Virginia
919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000
Richmond, Virginia, 23219
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Dating today is more complicated than ever and no one understands that better than we do. Every day, we speak with intelligent, selective, successful singles who feel frustrated with modern dating. They've been told they’re “too picky” or “not trying hard enough,” often by people who haven’t dated in a decade and have no idea how the landscape has changed.
Here’s the truth: when you’ve worked hard to build a successful life, ... Read More you should never feel guilty about wanting more from your personal life, too.
At Select Date Society, we offer a distinctive and superior approach to finding meaningful connections. We provide a private, personalized, and proven path to connect with quality, commitment-minded singles who value discretion, shared values, and lasting compatibility. You outsource in business, and you hire experts in law, finance, health, and wellness. We believe the same mindset should apply to something as important as love.
We’ve built deep relationships across the country with the kind of individuals you want to meet educated, accomplished, emotionally available professionals who are truly ready for a long-term relationship. Our team uses these connections to create powerful matches for clients who are serious about their outcome and selective about the journey.
We don’t cast a wide net. We cast a precise one. And we only take on clients we believe we can genuinely help. If you're ready to invest in your personal life the way you have in every other area this is your moment. This is your match.
Take the first step by completing the brief inquiry form below. We review every submission carefully, and if we believe it’s a strong fit, one of our Professional Matchmakers will be in touch to schedule a confidential conversation. You deserve a luxury dating experience and we’re ready when you are. Read Less

Trusted by Successful Singles

See what accomplished professionals and elite singles are saying about their experience with Select Date Society, directly from Google.
Select Date Society really cares and works diligently for their clients. They have the expertise and the network system to introduce quality potential candidates to their clients. This is why they have such a high and well deserved success rate.
Anna regensburger
I have been on the fence about hiring a matchmaker and the moment I got on the phone with Sandra, all of my doubts were gone. It felt like I`ve known her for years. She was professional, intuitive and thoroughly listened to my needs and wants regarding my next relationship....
lindsay Johnson
Divorced and in my 40s, dating after so many years was almost unimaginable. I was told about a private matchmaking firm that was working with a minimal number of clients and I decided to reach out. I immediately felt comfortable and knew they understood how uncomfortable this call was for...
Debbie Sheffield
I was hesitant at first as I didn’t know what to expect since I never worked with a matchmaker before and this company came highly recommended. I spoke with Sandra and from the very first moment felt truly connected to her! I felt as though she knew me my entire...
Natalie Chacon
This match making agency understood who I am and what I was looking for in a man I wanted to meet as a future companion. The very first date that Emily found for me was the perfect match. He is a widower who had a successful long marriage like me...
Linda Wenstrand
My experience with SDS has been absolutely First Class. This is a team that not only has the experience, expertise and contacts to be very successful, but also takes time to ask thoughtful questions and have real human conversations. The SDS way of making introductions and encouraging connections is life-changing...
Dan Zimmerman
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Frequently Asked Questions

What should I expect after contacting Select Date Society?

After your inquiry, you will be contacted by a Matchmaker who will discuss your goals, values, and expectations. We only accept clients we believe we can genuinely help, ensuring a high-quality, results-driven experience.


Why should I use a professional matchmaker instead of dating apps?

Dating apps often rely on algorithms and volume, which can lead to wasted time and frustration. Our service is tailored, intentional, and relationship-focused, giving you access to a vetted network of singles who meet your standards and are serious about commitment.


How can I get in touch with Select Date Society?

You can reach us by phone at (877) 344-9544 or visit us at our headquarters: 919 E. Main Street, Suite 1000, Richmond, VA 23219.

We are a nationwide executive matchmaking firm serving clients across the U.S.

How does Select Date Society support clients throughout their dating journey?

Beyond introductions, our Matchmakers provide strategy sessions, feedback, and ongoing support to help you navigate the dating process with confidence and clarity.

Can I speak directly with a Matchmaker before committing?

Yes. We encourage open, confidential conversations to ensure our services align with your needs before you make any commitment.


What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.

How is Select Date Society different from traditional matchmaking?

We combine decades of industry experience with modern, personalized strategies. Our approach focuses on quality over quantity and offers ongoing coaching to empower your dating journey.

How do you find a professional matchmaker?

At Select Date Society, we recommend starting with trusted referrals or searching for matchmakers who specialize in elite, personalized matchmaking. Look for proven experience, strong privacy standards, and a hands-on approach. Book a consultation to ensure their process aligns with your expectations. Transparency and confidentiality are key qualities. Select Date Society proudly upholds to help you find meaningful connections with discretion and care.