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Why Use a Luxury Matchmaker in Nantucket?


Have you achieved success in all aspects of life except love? If yes, you must take an equally proactive approach to your love life as you do in business. Outsource it to professionals with our exclusive VIP matchmaking services for elite singles in Nantucket. Select Date Society will find you the perfect, like-minded, exceptional, and highly vetted partner you deserve.


Elite Nantucket Matchmaker with a Success Mindset


At Select Date Society, we are highly selective when choosing clients for our executive matchmaking services in Nantucket. However, it is so for a reason.

Since we consider membership purely based on our belief in your success, you can be sure that your luxury matchmaker will have a genuine success mindset—a mindset that enables them to be highly efficient, effective, and determined to select the highest-quality, relationship-minded singles for you. Aligning yourself with success-oriented people is crucial in business, and you will do that for your personal life by opting for our high-end matchmaker in Nantucket.


Exclusive, No-Nonsense Upscale Matchmaking Services in Nantucket


We won’t waste your time. Your membership will be kept completely confidential, and we’ll provide you with everything you need to achieve dating success.

Our services include everything, from selecting the perfect partner from our broad network of elite singles to preparing charming dates (with the help of our concierges) and providing private insight sessions to ensure that your relationship is on the right track.


We value your time as much as you do; therefore, our high-end matchmaking services in Nantucket will cover everything dating-related, letting you focus entirely on your partner and establishing a strong, meaningful bond necessary for success. A like-minded partner with similar life achievements, shared passions, and a matching character.


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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach Phoenix San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Charleston Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Select Date Society different from traditional or app-based matchmaking?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service for elite singles who want more than algorithms and guesswork. The short version is simple: we’re far more involved. Apps chase volume and traditional agencies often lean on chance. We don’t. We listen carefully, and curate with intention. Our work feels closer to a private advisory service than anything algorithmic. We offer high-end matchmaking with a human touch — subtle, discreet, steady

How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.

Do clients receive guidance or support during the process?

Yes, but not in a scripted way. We discuss impressions, uncertainties, pacing — whatever comes up naturally. Many clients say the conversations helped them see patterns or preferences they hadn’t noticed before. Think of it as thoughtful companionship through the process, not coaching in the traditional sense.