Select Date Society started with the idea that singles today need a better option in the dating arena. The one size fits all approach of most services, whether it’s online dating or personal matchmaking, doesn’t seem to produce the results our clients desire.
In listening to the experiences of singles for decades, our Matchmakers have come to understand that each client has very specific needs, in order to succeed. Each matchmaker takes a tailored approach to create an opportunity for clients to have optimum success.
Our clients expect to be one of the select few, not one of many, as it is with large franchise organizations. Clients choose Select Date Society for the exclusiveness, as well as, our highly seasoned team of Professional Matchmakers.
Our clients know their expectations of both quality and service will be exceeded. SDS Matchmakers will take the time to custom-fit a program specifically for you so that you can achieve your desired end goal!
Most singles we have worked with throughout the years actually have most of the criteria to be in a successful relationship. The challenge has been more about the access to quality singles, rather than meeting people in general.
In other cases, we have worked with singles that appreciate the additional support from their own Personal Matchmaker. The client may want the insight to make informed decisions and feel the guidance of a Personal Matchmaker will accelerate their end goal.
We know that no one will be determined and persevere when they are blindly dating. They will find in the dating world, it’s more of an arduous task, a means to an end, rather than a fun dating experience. Select Date Society Matchmakers will definitely play a huge role in turning that around!
One thing most don’t consider in dating is that the laws of attraction are not in our favor. You can’t help who you attract; however, you can definitely help who you are introduced to! Be wise and be about the “KISS”
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Yes, but not in a scripted way. We discuss impressions, uncertainties, pacing — whatever comes up naturally. Many clients say the conversations helped them see patterns or preferences they hadn’t noticed before. Think of it as thoughtful companionship through the process, not coaching in the traditional sense.
There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment… the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.
A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.