How much does elite matchmaking cost?

Elite matchmaking services can vary widely in price. At the high end, most boutique firms begin ... Read Morearound $75,000 and can exceed $300,000 depending on the scope and level of personalization. Before making a decision, take time to research the matchmakers you meet with Look at their track record, experience, and client reviews. The real value lies not just in the cost but in the caliber of service and results behind it. Read Less

What is a luxury matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker offers an elevated experience, connecting you with vetted, accomplished individuals who are serious about finding a long-term relationship. These professionals work with a smaller, more selective client base, which allows ... Read More for deeper understanding, stronger matches, and greater discretion. If you want to date more intentionally and gain access to people you wouldn’t otherwise meet, a luxury matchmaker is an excellent investment. Read Less

Do matchmaking services actually work?

Yes, when you approach the process with honesty and trust. The most successful clients are open with their Matchmaker and receptive to guidance. ... Read MoreTrying to control the process or repeat what hasn’t worked in the past often leads to frustration. A great Matchmaker brings clarity, strategy, and access to high-quality matches helping you bypass guesswork and get closer to real results. Read Less

How do you find a professional matchmaker?

Finding the right Matchmaker takes some research. Start by exploring the firm’s website, social media presence, and client testimonials to understand their style ... Read Moreand track record. If you’re seeking more than just a local option, work with a national or global firm that offers broader access to elite singles. The Matchmaker’s experience and network are key to your success, make sure they’re well-connected and invested in your goals. Read Less

What does a Matchmaker do?

A professional Matchmaker gets to know you on a deep level your values, lifestyle, and long-term goals and then introduces you to compatible, relationship-minded ... Read More individuals. They act as your advocate throughout the process, offering insights, facilitating introductions, and helping you navigate each connection with clarity and confidence. Their role is part strategist, part confidante and 100% focused on your success. Read Less

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More Frequently Asked Questions

Who do Millionaires and Billionaires trust for matchmaking?

They prefer boutiques that understand their world — its pace, its expectations, its risks. Select Date Society is often the choice for Elite Matchmaking because the work is quiet, curated, and grounded in reality. It’s private introductions designed for people who need more than a list of names. It's an elevated approach built for those who move through life at a different altitude.

How do you find a professional matchmaker?

At Select Date Society, we recommend starting with trusted referrals or searching for matchmakers who specialize in elite, personalized matchmaking. Look for proven experience, strong privacy standards, and a hands-on approach. Book a consultation to ensure their process aligns with your expectations. Transparency and confidentiality are key qualities. Select Date Society proudly upholds to help you find meaningful connections with discretion and care.

How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.