No matter your relationship status, the Enneagram is a powerful tool for increasing self-awareness. If you’re single and searching for love, it can provide invaluable insights into your personality—highlighting both your strengths and blind spots. These revelations can dramatically improve the way you approach dating, helping you form deep, lasting connections with the right partner.
The Enneagram is a personality assessment that categorizes people into nine core personality types, each with its own motivations, fears, and growth patterns. Unlike other personality assessments, the Enneagram goes beyond surface traits—it helps you understand who you are at your core, how you respond under stress, and who you become when you are at your best.
For high-achieving individuals, self-awareness is key—not just in business, but in relationships. The Enneagram helps you navigate romantic dynamics with greater clarity, allowing you to recognize patterns in your dating life that may be holding you back.
As premier matchmakers and relationship strategists, we work with some of the world’s most accomplished individuals—CEOs, attorneys, physicians, investors, Ivy League graduates, politicians, celebrities, and professional athletes. Our clients are ambitious, driven, and successful in their careers, yet many find that finding the right partner requires a different kind of strategy.
Some have dedicated years to their education and business ventures and are now ready to shift their focus to love. Others are newly single after a long-term relationship or marriage and need expert guidance in re-entering the dating world. We also work with those who have lost a spouse and are wondering if love is possible again.
Regardless of your situation, understanding why you think the way you think and why you behave the way you do will make you a better dater—and ultimately, a better partner when you find your match.
By understanding your Enneagram type, you can:
If you’re ready to take control of your dating journey and find a partner who truly aligns with you, we recommend taking the official Enneagram assessment through The Enneagram Institute.
At Select Date Society, our matchmaking services go beyond simple introductions—we incorporate psychological insights, personalized coaching, and a white-glove experience to ensure success. If you’re an accomplished professional seeking a serious, committed relationship, we’d love to help you find “the one.”
Contact us today to begin your elite matchmaking journey.
A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.
We combine decades of industry experience with modern, personalized strategies. Our approach focuses on quality over quantity and offers ongoing coaching to empower your dating journey.
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