Home Blog What Is It Like Working With A High-End Matchmaker?
April 04, 2023  |  Tuesday

Working with a high-end matchmaker can be a unique and rewarding experience

for those seeking a higher level of personalized attention and exclusivity. The

process involves an initial consultation where the matchmaker gets to know your

preferences, lifestyle, interests, and what you’re looking for in a partner. Sandra

Myers & Amber Lee, the co-founders of Select Date Society, personally meet with

all prospective matchmaking clients to make sure they feel confident in

representing the client and achieving their desired outcome. With decades of

experience in the matchmaking industry, the matchmakers at Select Date Society

can easily assess whether matchmaking makes sense for you.


Once we have decided to take you as a client, our matchmakers then meticulously

match you with potential partners who fit your specific criteria, considering your

personal and professional background, values, goals, and what you’re looking for

in a partner. We are authentic matchmakers, not just a dating service, so our goal is

not just to get you out on dates. We are going to go beyond surface-level criteria

and match you with the goal of finding “your person.”

We work with high-net-worth individuals, and protecting our client’s privacy is of

the utmost importance. Everyone in our network is background checked and has

signed a non-disclosure.

Our date concierge arranges introductions, manages your date schedule, and makes

all reservations so that you don’t need to hassle with logistics. Our matchmakers

follow up with both you and the other person to ensure a successful outcome.

Throughout the process, our matchmaking team offers support and guidance,

providing advice on dating etiquette and suggesting ways to improve your chances

of success. Working with a high-end matchmaker can streamline the dating process

and increase your chances of finding a compatible partner at a higher level of

quality and discretion.

Keep in mind that while no matchmaker can guarantee a perfect match, the success

of the process depends on your willingness to put in the time and effort to build a

connection with someone. We are extremely protective of our success rate,

therefore, we only work with individuals who are seeking a committed one-on-one

relationship.


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Frequently Asked Questions

Do Matchmaking services actually work?

Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.


How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.


What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.