Working with a high-end matchmaker can be a unique and rewarding experience
for those seeking a higher level of personalized attention and exclusivity. The
process involves an initial consultation where the matchmaker gets to know your
preferences, lifestyle, interests, and what you’re looking for in a partner. Sandra
Myers & Amber Lee, the co-founders of Select Date Society, personally meet with
all prospective matchmaking clients to make sure they feel confident in
representing the client and achieving their desired outcome. With decades of
experience in the matchmaking industry, the matchmakers at Select Date Society
can easily assess whether matchmaking makes sense for you.
Once we have decided to take you as a client, our matchmakers then meticulously
match you with potential partners who fit your specific criteria, considering your
personal and professional background, values, goals, and what you’re looking for
in a partner. We are authentic matchmakers, not just a dating service, so our goal is
not just to get you out on dates. We are going to go beyond surface-level criteria
and match you with the goal of finding “your person.”
We work with high-net-worth individuals, and protecting our client’s privacy is of
the utmost importance. Everyone in our network is background checked and has
signed a non-disclosure.
Our date concierge arranges introductions, manages your date schedule, and makes
all reservations so that you don’t need to hassle with logistics. Our matchmakers
follow up with both you and the other person to ensure a successful outcome.
Throughout the process, our matchmaking team offers support and guidance,
providing advice on dating etiquette and suggesting ways to improve your chances
of success. Working with a high-end matchmaker can streamline the dating process
and increase your chances of finding a compatible partner at a higher level of
quality and discretion.
Keep in mind that while no matchmaker can guarantee a perfect match, the success
of the process depends on your willingness to put in the time and effort to build a
connection with someone. We are extremely protective of our success rate,
therefore, we only work with individuals who are seeking a committed one-on-one
relationship.
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Frequently Asked Questions
We speak with every potential match personally. It’s not just about checking boxes; it’s about understanding who they are, how they live, and what they want. This creates higher-quality introductions and ensures genuine compatibility.
Yes, but not in a scripted way. We discuss impressions, uncertainties, pacing — whatever comes up naturally. Many clients say the conversations helped them see patterns or preferences they hadn’t noticed before. Think of it as thoughtful companionship through the process, not coaching in the traditional sense.
Most people simply reach out through our inquiry form. We follow up with a private conversation - not rushed, not scripted - just an honest discussion about who you are and what you’re hoping to find. From there, we shape a plan around your lifestyle. Some clients come to us because they’re tired of noise. Others because they want a level of care usually reserved for UHNWI circles or individuals seeking a more intentional form of Millionaire Dating.