Working with a high-end matchmaker can be a unique and rewarding experience
for those seeking a higher level of personalized attention and exclusivity. The
process involves an initial consultation where the matchmaker gets to know your
preferences, lifestyle, interests, and what you’re looking for in a partner. Sandra
Myers & Amber Lee, the co-founders of Select Date Society, personally meet with
all prospective matchmaking clients to make sure they feel confident in
representing the client and achieving their desired outcome. With decades of
experience in the matchmaking industry, the matchmakers at Select Date Society
can easily assess whether matchmaking makes sense for you.
Once we have decided to take you as a client, our matchmakers then meticulously
match you with potential partners who fit your specific criteria, considering your
personal and professional background, values, goals, and what you’re looking for
in a partner. We are authentic matchmakers, not just a dating service, so our goal is
not just to get you out on dates. We are going to go beyond surface-level criteria
and match you with the goal of finding “your person.”
We work with high-net-worth individuals, and protecting our client’s privacy is of
the utmost importance. Everyone in our network is background checked and has
signed a non-disclosure.
Our date concierge arranges introductions, manages your date schedule, and makes
all reservations so that you don’t need to hassle with logistics. Our matchmakers
follow up with both you and the other person to ensure a successful outcome.
Throughout the process, our matchmaking team offers support and guidance,
providing advice on dating etiquette and suggesting ways to improve your chances
of success. Working with a high-end matchmaker can streamline the dating process
and increase your chances of finding a compatible partner at a higher level of
quality and discretion.
Keep in mind that while no matchmaker can guarantee a perfect match, the success
of the process depends on your willingness to put in the time and effort to build a
connection with someone. We are extremely protective of our success rate,
therefore, we only work with individuals who are seeking a committed one-on-one
relationship.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.
A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.
Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.