Have You Taken the Enneagram Personality Assessment Yet?
No matter your relationship status, the Enneagram is a powerful tool for increasing self-awareness. If you’re single and searching for love, it can provide invaluable insights into your personality—highlighting both your strengths and blind spots. These revelations can dramatically improve the way you approach dating, helping you form deep, lasting connections with the right partner.
What Is the Enneagram?
The Enneagram is a personality assessment that categorizes people into nine core personality types, each with its own motivations, fears, and growth patterns. Unlike other personality assessments, the Enneagram goes beyond surface traits—it helps you understand who you are at your core, how you respond under stress, and who you become when you are at your best.
For high-achieving individuals, self-awareness is key—not just in business, but in relationships. The Enneagram helps you navigate romantic dynamics with greater clarity, allowing you to recognize patterns in your dating life that may be holding you back.
Why We Love the Enneagram for Matchmaking
As premier matchmakers and relationship strategists, we work with some of the world’s most accomplished individuals—CEOs, attorneys, physicians, investors, Ivy League graduates, politicians, celebrities, and professional athletes. Our clients are ambitious, driven, and successful in their careers, yet many find that finding the right partner requires a different kind of strategy.
Some have dedicated years to their education and business ventures and are now ready to shift their focus to love. Others are newly single after a long-term relationship or marriage and need expert guidance in re-entering the dating world. We also work with those who have lost a spouse and are wondering if love is possible again.
Regardless of your situation, understanding why you think the way you think and why you behave the way you do will make you a better dater—and ultimately, a better partner when you find your match.
How the Enneagram Enhances Your Dating Success
By understanding your Enneagram type, you can:
- Identify Your Relationship Strengths – Recognize the qualities that make you an exceptional partner.
- Spot Your Blind Spots – Become aware of habits or fears that may be sabotaging your love life.
- Improve Communication & Compatibility – Learn how your personality type interacts with others, helping you avoid unnecessary conflicts.
- Build Emotional Intelligence – Gain a deeper understanding of what you need in a relationship to feel truly fulfilled.
Take the Next Step in Your Love Life
If you’re ready to take control of your dating journey and find a partner who truly aligns with you, we recommend taking the official Enneagram assessment through The Enneagram Institute.
At Select Date Society, our matchmaking services go beyond simple introductions—we incorporate psychological insights, personalized coaching, and a white-glove experience to ensure success. If you’re an accomplished professional seeking a serious, committed relationship, we’d love to help you find “the one.”
Contact us today to begin your elite matchmaking journey.
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Frequently Asked Questions
They prefer boutiques that understand their world — its pace, its expectations, its risks. Select Date Society is often the choice for Elite Matchmaking because the work is quiet, curated, and grounded in reality. It’s private introductions designed for people who need more than a list of names. It's an elevated approach built for those who move through life at a different altitude.
Yes, often. Many of our clients live between cities or between continents. So global matchmaking is simply part of the rhythm here. We use an international network, personal relationships, and private recruitment to find candidates in places where typical agencies don’t operate.
Extremely seriously.
For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.