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Why Use a Luxury Matchmaker In Chicago?


You are an accomplished professional living in Chicago, striving for meaningful dates. Yet, you are unable to find elite singles suiting your tastes and goals. If you can relate to this situation, we have a solution for you: Select Date Society’s high-end Chicago matchmaking will successfully get you back into the dating arena!


Discreet, professional and exclusive Chicago matchmaking for elite singles like you


We know who you are: an attractive, prosperous executive looking for the love of your life. You value success, efficiency and privacy. You are newly single or just tired of swiping left and right. Our high-end matchmaking service in Chicago is dedicated to upscale singles like you.


Our membership is a guarantee of meeting elite singles with similar values. Your experience and professional success are what define your relationship goals, and our Chicago matchmakers will connect you with other executives just like you. Forget about hours spent on dates that were bound to fail – with us, you will finally meet singles who are worth your time.


Professional matchmakers in Chicago who will support you through your dating journey


We desire to create a positive dating story for you. Thus, our matchmakers are there to assist you not only in finding the finest partner, but also in creating a sublime dating experience. We are not men-oriented as standard dating franchises – men and women receive the same, thorough amount of support. Our consideration for membership means that we believe in your success and wish to help you achieve it.


Do not wait and elevate your dating experience with our professional matchmaking service in Chicago. Submit our confidential inquiry form and prepare to meet your soulmate


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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Select Date Society different from traditional or app-based matchmaking?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service for elite singles who want more than algorithms and guesswork. The short version is simple: we’re far more involved. Apps chase volume and traditional agencies often lean on chance. We don’t. We listen carefully, and curate with intention. Our work feels closer to a private advisory service than anything algorithmic. We offer high-end matchmaking with a human touch — subtle, discreet, steady


Who typically becomes a client?

There’s no single mold. We meet CEOs who live on planes, founders who built their own world from scratch, UHNW Singles who want someone who understands the pace they keep, and individuals from real estate, finance, law, medicine, entertainment… the list is long. What ties them together isn’t status. It’s preference. They want thoughtful introductions, handled quietly, with people who genuinely fit.


Do clients receive guidance or support during the process?

Yes, but not in a scripted way. We discuss impressions, uncertainties, pacing — whatever comes up naturally. Many clients say the conversations helped them see patterns or preferences they hadn’t noticed before. Think of it as thoughtful companionship through the process, not coaching in the traditional sense.