Elite, Hand-Selected
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Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
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Why Use a Luxury Matchmaker In Chicago?


You are an accomplished professional living in Chicago, striving for meaningful dates. Yet, you are unable to find elite singles suiting your tastes and goals. If you can relate to this situation, we have a solution for you: Select Date Society’s high-end Chicago matchmaking will successfully get you back into the dating arena!


Discreet, professional and exclusive Chicago matchmaking for elite singles like you


We know who you are: an attractive, prosperous executive looking for the love of your life. You value success, efficiency and privacy. You are newly single or just tired of swiping left and right. Our high-end matchmaking service in Chicago is dedicated to upscale singles like you.


Our membership is a guarantee of meeting elite singles with similar values. Your experience and professional success are what define your relationship goals, and our Chicago matchmakers will connect you with other executives just like you. Forget about hours spent on dates that were bound to fail – with us, you will finally meet singles who are worth your time.


Professional matchmakers in Chicago who will support you through your dating journey


We desire to create a positive dating story for you. Thus, our matchmakers are there to assist you not only in finding the finest partner, but also in creating a sublime dating experience. We are not men-oriented as standard dating franchises – men and women receive the same, thorough amount of support. Our consideration for membership means that we believe in your success and wish to help you achieve it.


Do not wait and elevate your dating experience with our professional matchmaking service in Chicago. Submit our confidential inquiry form and prepare to meet your soulmate


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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )

Select Date Society's membership options range from structured matchmaking programs to fully customized white-glove search experiences in Chicago and beyond.
Our luxury matchmaking and elite dating services in Chicago are designed for accomplished professionals, entrepreneurs, executives, Ivy League graduates, millionaires, billionaires, and international clients seeking meaningful, long-term relationships.
Led by nationally recognized matchmakers Sandra and Amber Lee, whose combined experience exceeds 60 years, Select Date Society combines discretion, expertise, and personalized strategy with one of the most selective private networks of exceptional singles in Chicago, across the United States, and internationally.
If you're ready to approach finding the right partner with the same intention that shaped your personal and professional success, our confidential Chicago matchmaking services are designed to help exceptional people meet exceptional partners.
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
The Founders Club is the pinnacle of exclusive, personalized luxury matchmaking. With a $1 million membership investment, experience elite matchmaking created for a select few who value privacy, excellence, and a deeply individualized approach to finding love. This extraordinary partnership offers an unmatched level of discretion, strategic guidance, and founder-led support.

Client Success Stories

Servicing Areas

International

United Arab Emirates

Dubai


United Kingdom

London


Italy

Milan


France

Paris


Canada

Toronto

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Select Date Society different from traditional or app-based matchmaking?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service for elite singles who want more than algorithms and guesswork. The short version is simple: we’re far more involved. Apps chase volume and traditional agencies often lean on chance. We don’t. We listen carefully, and curate with intention. Our work feels closer to a private advisory service than anything algorithmic. We offer high-end matchmaking with a human touch — subtle, discreet, steady


Who do Millionaires and Billionaires trust for matchmaking?

They prefer boutiques that understand their world — its pace, its expectations, its risks. Select Date Society is often the choice for Elite Matchmaking because the work is quiet, curated, and grounded in reality. It’s private introductions designed for people who need more than a list of names. It's an elevated approach built for those who move through life at a different altitude.


Does Select Date Society serve clients internationally?

Yes, often. Many of our clients live between cities or between continents. So global matchmaking is simply part of the rhythm here. We use an international network, personal relationships, and private recruitment to find candidates in places where typical agencies don’t operate.