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Maryland is more than a midpoint between Washington, D.C., and New York. It is a state defined by prestige, waterfront estates in Annapolis, historic wealth in Chevy Chase, private enclaves in Potomac, and skyline penthouses in Baltimore Harbor. For those who live in these worlds, success is a given. The challenge isn’t meeting people. The challenge is finding someone who belongs.

At Select Date Society, we provide elite matchmaking designed exclusively for billionaires, celebrities, philanthropists, and cultural leaders who demand absolute discretion. This is luxury matchmaking built around your lifestyle, your values, and the legacy you want to share with someone worthy of your time.


How We Help Maryland’s Elite


Every client works with a personal matchmaker who tailors introductions with precision. Our process goes beyond background checks and profiles; it’s a curated experience where compatibility, lifestyle, and discretion converge.


We specialize in:


  • High-end matchmaking services for billionaires and cultural icons


  • Upscale matchmaking that prioritizes quality over quantity


  • Exclusive matchmaking service offering complete privacy


  • Celebrity matchmaker expertise for high-profile individuals


  • Matchmaking for professionals and philanthropists who expect excellence


This is not a numbers game. It is a high-end dating service designed for those who value privacy, efficiency, and results.


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Where Maryland’s Elite Connect


Our introductions take place in settings that reflect the state’s culture of exclusivity:


  • Private yacht dinners on the Chesapeake Bay


  • Country clubs in Chevy Chase and Bethesda


  • Rooftop soirées in Baltimore’s Inner Harbor


  • Weekend escapes to vineyards on the Eastern Shore


  • Intimate gatherings in Potomac estates


Each meeting is designed to feel natural, discreet, and aligned with the standards of Maryland’s most accomplished. This is upscale dating service at its finest.



Our Specialization


Select Date Society is trusted by those who move the world forward, who are billionaires, celebrities, philanthropists, and legacy families. Our high-end matchmaking process combines global reach with local expertise, ensuring that introductions are not just compatible but life-changing.


Unlike mass-market services, we don’t measure success in volume. We measure it in lasting relationships, built intentionally through exclusive matchmaking services that respect your privacy and elevate your standards.



Why Maryland Chooses Select Date Society



For the ultra-wealthy, time is not just money; it is the ultimate luxury. And privacy is its closest companion. That is why Maryland’s most accomplished individuals entrust Select Date Society with one of the most personal aspects of their lives.



Our high-end dating services go far beyond introductions. Every step of our process is designed for precision, discretion, and impact. From your initial consultation, your personal matchmaker takes the time to understand your lifestyle, values, and vision for a relationship. We then leverage our exclusive network of billionaires, celebrities, and cultural leaders to ensure that every introduction reflects your standards.



What makes us different?


  • Discretion at the highest level: absolute confidentiality in every interaction.
  • Tailored introductions: no random pairings, only meaningful matches.
  • Elite access: a global network of accomplished individuals who share your world.
  • Upscale matchmaking: experiences designed to feel seamless and natural, whether it’s a private yacht dinner on the Chesapeake or an evening at a Chevy Chase country club.


When you choose Select Date Society, you’re not choosing more dates. You’re choosing better dates, which are curated experiences that align with your life and lead to authentic, lasting connections.


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Your Next Chapter


At Select Date Society, our role is to make that chapter a reality. Through luxury matchmaking and exclusive matchmaking services, we connect you with partners who match your lifestyle, your values, and your vision of the future. These are not casual introductions. They are intentional, thoughtful, and designed for people who live at the very top.


Imagine conversations that flow as easily as champagne at a private gathering in Potomac. Imagine a partner who understands the rhythm of your life, whether that means evenings at the Kennedy Center, weekends in the Hamptons, or quiet escapes along the Chesapeake Bay. This is the standard of connection we deliver.


Because in the end, success is sweeter when it’s shared. The next chapter of your life deserves more than just companionship. It deserves a partnership that reflects the very best of who you are.

Start Your Journey with Select Date Society Maryland

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Elite Matchmaking Within Maryland

Baltimore Bethesda Chevy Chase Potomac
CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
Million Dollar Membership (Invite Only)
Founders Club
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
This is Ultra-Exclusive matchmaking. It’s an immersive relationship concierge experience, starting with a private, in-home consultation conducted by the co-founders themselves. No assistants. No delegation.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.

Is Select Date Society only for celebrities or ultra-high-net-worth individuals?

While we specialize in serving ultra-high-net-worth and successful singles, our services are available to discerning individuals seeking a professional, confidential matchmaking experience.

How is Select Date Society different from traditional matchmaking?

We combine decades of industry experience with modern, personalized strategies. Our approach focuses on quality over quantity and offers ongoing coaching to empower your dating journey.