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Virginia is a state where tradition meets influence. McLean’s tree-lined drives, the gated retreats of Great Falls, Old Town Alexandria’s waterfront, and the rolling vineyards near Charlottesville all tell the same story: a life of accomplishment, privilege, and privacy. Success here is expected. What’s rare is finding someone who truly fits into that world.

That is where Select Date Society steps in. We specialize in luxury matchmaking for Virginia’s most distinguished residents: billionaires, cultural icons, celebrities, and philanthropists. Our work is not about endless introductions. It is about creating one introduction that matters.


How Virginia’s Elite Discover Meaningful Connections


Every client is paired with a personal matchmaker who takes the time to understand not only preferences but also lifestyle, values, and vision for the future. This is not a quick process. It is thoughtful, selective, and private.


Our expertise includes:


  • Elite matchmaking built on trust and discretion.


  • High-end matchmaking services for leaders at the highest level.


  • Upscale matchmaking that respects demanding schedules.


  • Elite matchmaking service designed for total confidentiality.


  • Celebrity matchmaker guidance trusted by clients who live in the public eye.


You don’t need more dates. You need the right one. That’s the promise of high-end dating services designed for Virginia’s most accomplished.

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Exclusive Introductions Across Virginia


The settings matter.


Our introductions often take place in the spaces Virginia’s elite naturally frequent — environments that reflect their lifestyle and standards.


  • Discreet dinners in McLean and Tysons
  • Elegant gatherings within Great Falls estates
  • Waterfront moments in Old Town Alexandria
  • Weekend escapes to vineyards near Charlottesville
  • Cultural engagements across Arlington and D.C.

Each connection is designed to feel natural, private, and seamlessly aligned with the way our clients already live. This is what defines upscale dating at Select Date Society — it doesn’t disrupt your life; it elevates it.


Our Specialization: Matchmaking Designed Around You


Select Date Society is not a mass-market platform. We are a boutique firm trusted by the world’s most successful and visible clients. Our approach to high-end matchmaking is precise and intentional.


We draw from an international network of accomplished individuals while applying a local understanding of Virginia’s unique culture of prestige. Whether you are a billionaire philanthropist, a legacy family leader, or a cultural icon, your personal matchmaker ensures introductions that reflect your life at every level.


Our goal is not volume. It is alignment. Executive matchmaking services and matchmaking for professionals here are designed to create connections that endure.


The Select Date Society Difference


Time. Privacy. Both are priceless. Our high-end matchmaking services respect them completely. Every introduction is discreet, intentional, and curated to reflect the life you already lead.

What makes us different?


  • One-to-one support from a personal matchmaker.


  • A vetted, selective network of extraordinary singles.


  • Absolute discretion at every stage.


  • The confidence of working with a trusted elite matchmaking service.


Some of our clients meet over champagne at a private country club in McLean. Others prefer a quiet stroll along the Potomac or a performance at the Kennedy Center. No matter the setting, the experience is seamless, never forced, and always elevated.


Begin with a confidential consultation: Book Your Consultation


Begin Your Journey in Virginia


You’ve built an extraordinary life, a life defined by influence, heritage, and success. The next step is finding someone who not only understands that world but also enriches it.


At Select Date Society, our upscale matchmaking is about more than introductions. It is about creating connections that feel as rare as they are genuine. From McLean’s stately homes to Charlottesville’s vineyards, from Alexandria’s waterfront charm to Great Falls’ private gatherings, we bring together Virginia’s most accomplished singles in ways that honor privacy, taste, and tradition.


Because at the highest level, love should not be left to chance. It should be as intentional, refined, and exclusive as the life you already live.


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Elite Matchmaking Within Virginia

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CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

Servicing Areas

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Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
Alexandria Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Falls Church Fisher Island Greensboro Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville New Orleans Palm Beach Potomac Raleigh Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Midwest
Chicago Cincinnati Cleveland Columbus Detroit Grand Rapids Indianapolis Minneapolis St. Louis
Southwest
Austin Dallas Houston Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert Portland San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Select Date Society different from typical dating apps?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service exclusively for elite singles. Unlike mass-market apps, we focus on meaningful, vetted introductions tailored to your unique goals and lifestyle.

How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.

How do I get started with Select Date Society for Elite Matchmaking Services?

Simply reach out through our inquiry form to schedule a private consultation. From there, our professional Matchmakers will guide you through the process tailored to your unique needs.