Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients

Arizona is more than desert landscapes and glowing sunsets. It’s Scottsdale’s resort lifestyle, Phoenix’s bustling business district, Sedona’s spiritual calm, and Tucson’s cultural charm. It’s a state where ambition thrives, with entrepreneurs, executives, and innovators making their mark every day. But for many, the hardest part isn’t building success. It’s finding someone who understands and complements that success.


That’s where Select Date Society comes in. We specialize in luxury matchmaking, not just introductions, but intentional, curated connections. Our clients choose us because they value discretion, time, and the quality of every introduction.


Curious about how we work? Take a look at our membership options.


Why Arizona’s Professionals Turn to Elite Matchmaking


Let’s be honest, dating looks different when you’ve already reached a certain level of success. The higher you climb, the fewer people truly understand your world. Apps start to feel like noise, casual encounters feel mismatched, and the spark you’re looking for seems harder to find.


One Phoenix finance executive told us he deleted every app after realizing he spent more time swiping than connecting. A Scottsdale entrepreneur admitted she was tired of dates who admired her achievements but didn’t share her values. These stories aren’t rare—they’re the reason upscale matchmaking exists.


Ready for something more intentional? Meet your personal matchmaker.


The Role of a Personal Matchmaker


Every client works directly with a personal matchmaker. No algorithms, no endless profiles, just thoughtful conversations that uncover who you are, how you live, and what you want in a partner.

Executive matchmaking services handpick every introduction to align with your lifestyle and ambitions. Whether you’re closing deals in downtown Phoenix, enjoying Whether you are spending weekends in Sedona or managing a bi-coastal calendar between Arizona and New York, your time is never wasted.


Want to see if our approach fits your lifestyle? Learn more About Us.


Experiences That Match an Upscale Lifestyle


Introductions are only part of the story. We believe that setting shapes connections. We design our high-end dating services with your lifestyle in mind.


  • A private dinner in Scottsdale’s hidden dining rooms.


  • A weekend golf retreat in Paradise Valley, where conversation flows naturally


  • A sunset hike in Sedona, ending with wine under the stars


  • An evening at Tucson’s Fox Theatre, perfect for those drawn to the arts


One Scottsdale client once laughed, “I don’t need more dates; I need the right ones in the right places.” That’s exactly what exclusive matchmaking services are built to deliver.

Imagine your next introduction. Start your journey today.


Serving Arizona’s Most Prestigious Communities


Our clients live and love across the state:


  • Phoenix & Scottsdale: executives, entrepreneurs, and professionals


  • Sedona: investors and philanthropists drawn to its tranquility


  • Tucson: academics, cultural leaders, and innovators


  • Paradise Valley: celebrities, executives, and those embracing a luxury lifestyle


Many also maintain homes outside Arizona. Think Wall Street executives wintering in Scottsdale or Upper East Side professionals retreating to Paradise Valley. That’s the beauty of matchmaking for professionals; your network extends far beyond borders.


Privacy Comes First


When your reputation matters, discretion isn’t optional. Our clients: CEOs, celebrities, and philanthropists, trust us because privacy is at the heart of everything we do. We handle every consultation, introduction, and experience with confidentiality.


And we don’t measure success by volume. We measure it by the long-term relationships that begin with us. That’s what makes Select Date Society one of the most respected names in upscale dating services.


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What Makes Us Different


At this level, elite matchmaking is both an art and a science. Technology can’t capture ambition, chemistry, or a shared vision for the future. That’s why our celebrity matchmakers combine experience, intuition, and human judgment to make introductions that matter.


We’ve worked with clients who host charity galas, run global companies, and shape cultural movements. Whether you’re based in Arizona full-time or split your life across states, our approach adapts to your world.


Begin Your Journey


Time is the rarest luxury. Why spend it on guesswork? With Select Date Society, every introduction is intentional, every experience reflects your lifestyle, and every connection has the potential to become something lasting.


If you’re ready to meet someone who truly fits, we’d love to begin that journey with you.


Begin your journey with Select Date Society Arizona.

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Elite Matchmaking Within Arizona

CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
Million Dollar Membership (Invite Only)
Founders Club
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
This is Ultra-Exclusive matchmaking. It’s an immersive relationship concierge experience, starting with a private, in-home consultation conducted by the co-founders themselves. No assistants. No delegation.

Client Success Stories

Servicing Areas

Frequently Asked Questions

What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?

A luxury matchmaker is someone who goes beyond the typical dating scene to offer a truly personalized experience for successful, discerning singles. Instead of swiping or endless profiles, they take the time to really understand who you are, your values, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s about quality, not quantity. With a luxury matchmaker, you get discreet, carefully curated introductions designed to help you find a meaningful, lasting connection, all handled with the utmost privacy and care.


What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.


How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.