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Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
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Trusted by Executives &
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New Jersey isn’t a shadow of New York; it’s a state of power in its own right. The glass towers of Jersey City rival Wall Street. Alpine and Saddle River guard estates where privacy is priceless. Princeton radiates intellectual brilliance, while Short Hills mixes luxury shopping with private country clubs. Across the Garden State, wealth and influence take on their own distinctive form.


It is here that executives, entrepreneurs, and high-net-worth individuals have built legacies. They’ve mastered business, curated lifestyles, and achieved extraordinary success. Yet for many, one pursuit remains unfinished: finding a partner who belongs in their world.


At Select Date Society, that is what we do. We offer luxury matchmaking services designed for professionals, executives, and cultural leaders who want love to be as intentional, discreet, and prestigious as every other part of their lives.


Why New Jersey’s Leaders Turn to Exclusive Matchmaking


You already know that time is your most valuable asset. Privacy is your greatest shield. And when you’ve built a life of success, you can’t afford to gamble on chance encounters or apps that treat everyone the same.


That’s why New Jersey’s elite turn to our exclusive matchmaking service. With a personal matchmaker, every introduction is deliberate and private. You won’t waste time sifting through options. Instead, you’ll meet people who reflect your values, lifestyle, and ambitions for people who truly fit.


Uncover the art of luxury matchmaking in New Jersey: Matchmaking Services.


Executive Matchmaking Services: Beyond the Boardroom


Our clients are industry leaders who are managing directors and investment strategists, chief scientific officers, and equity partners at top law firms. Many are also CEOs and Fortune 500 board members, balancing influence with the need for private, meaningful connections.


For them, our executive matchmaking services provide more than introductions. They provide alignment. During a private consultation, we ask, "What drives you? What values matter most? Who would elevate, not complicate, your life?


With that understanding, we create introductions as intentional as the decisions you make in business. That’s why our clients see high-end matchmaking as an investment—one as strategic and life-changing as any they’ve made before.


Step inside our exclusive process: our approach.


The Garden State as a Stage for Romance


New Jersey offers a setting that’s every bit as sophisticated as its residents. Consider:


  • Waterfront Luxury: Private dining in Jersey City with skyline views of Manhattan, or champagne on a Hoboken terrace as the sun dips below the Hudson.


  • Country Clubs and Estates: Baltusrol Golf Club, Glen Ridge Country Club, and the discreet estates of Short Hills and Alpine, where exclusivity is the rule.


  • Cultural Experiences: Evenings at the New Jersey Performing Arts Center or gallery tours in Montclair paired with wine tastings.


  • Seaside Sophistication: Retreats in Spring Lake or Deal, where oceanfront luxury blends with privacy.


These are not ordinary date spots; they are extensions of the lifestyle New Jersey’s elite already live. With Select Date Society, the right person will be there beside you.


Who We Serve


Our upscale matchmaking services are designed for individuals who don’t settle—people who invest in privacy, precision, and lasting compatibility.


We serve:


  • High-net-worth individuals across finance, law, medicine, and technology.


  • Executives and entrepreneurs balancing public success with private ambition.


  • Philanthropists and cultural leaders shaping New Jersey communities.


  • Public figures and creatives who rely on the discretion of a celebrity matchmaker.


From Wall Street Energy to Waterfront Romance


New Jersey thrives on balance. It captures the global pulse of New York while offering private sanctuaries in Alpine, Short Hills, and Saddle River. It’s that blend of ambition and intimacy, prestige and authenticity, that defines both the state and our approach to matchmaking.


Our upscale dating services reflect this balance. Every introduction combines discretion with compatibility, ensuring relationships that don’t just fit your world, they elevate it.


Begin Your Prestigious Matchmaking Journey


Success has rewarded you with influence, opportunity, and recognition. But prestige without someone to share it with still feels unfinished.


Picture a private dinner in Short Hills. Picture wine at a Hoboken rooftop with Manhattan sparkling across the water. Picture a weekend in Spring Lake, where luxury and leisure meet. Now imagine those moments with someone who doesn’t just understand your life but belongs in it.


That’s the promise of Select Date Society. Love at your level is never random. It is curated, private, and designed for the few who expect more.


Schedule your confidential consultation today. Because in New Jersey, true luxury isn’t only about success; it’s about love that matches it.

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Elite Matchmaking Within New Jersey

CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
Million Dollar Membership (Invite Only)
Founders Club
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
This is Ultra-Exclusive matchmaking. It’s an immersive relationship concierge experience, starting with a private, in-home consultation conducted by the co-founders themselves. No assistants. No delegation.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.


Do Matchmaking services actually work?

Yes, they do when done right. Matchmaking isn’t about quick fixes or random matches; it’s a thoughtful, personalized process that focuses on quality over quantity. A good matchmaking service takes the time to understand your unique needs and values, and connects you with people who truly align with your relationship goals. While it may take some patience, many clients find that professional matchmaking saves time and leads to deeper, more meaningful connections than typical dating apps or casual encounters.


How do I get started with Select Date Society for Elite Matchmaking Services?

Simply reach out through our inquiry form to schedule a private consultation. From there, our professional Matchmakers will guide you through the process tailored to your unique needs.