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Where North Carolina’s Elite Discover Genuine Connections


In North Carolina, success takes many forms. Some are making bold moves in Charlotte’s financial district. Others are steering startups in Raleigh or lending their creative voice to Asheville’s thriving arts community. But no matter the stage or the spotlight, many of these accomplished professionals share the same private thought: finding someone genuine, someone who understands both ambition and lifestyle, shouldn’t feel harder than building a company.


That’s where Select Date Society steps in. We provide luxury matchmaking designed for leaders, innovators, and public figures who value discretion, efficiency, and meaningful connection.


A Higher Standard of Matchmaking


Let’s be honest: swiping on apps isn’t where North Carolina’s top professionals expect to meet their partner. Busy executives and entrepreneurs often find digital dating not just unfulfilling but exhausting.


Our clients come to us because they want something curated. A service that respects their privacy. An exclusive matchmaking service that feels more intentional and more aligned with their standards. Select Date Society specializes in upscale dating services for those who understand that love, like business, benefits from a thoughtful plan.


Personalized Service with a Dedicated Matchmaker


Every client works one-on-one with a dedicated personal matchmaker. This is not an assistant flipping through a database; it’s a boutique experience led by seasoned experts. Founders Amber Lee and Sandra Myers are nationally recognized celebrity matchmakers who have built their reputations on delivering introductions that matter.


With them, executive matchmaking services are elevated to an art form. You’re not handed a stack of names. Instead, you embark on a journey where each introduction reflects shared values, ambition, and lifestyle.


Discover your personalized matchmaking plan in North Carolina.


North Carolina: The Perfect Canvas for Romance


This state has its own brand of sophistication. Charlotte’s skyline is dotted with rooftop lounges and fine dining rooms ideal for a first meeting. Raleigh brings a mix of cultural energy and intellectual drive, an atmosphere where conversations easily stretch past midnight. Then there’s Asheville, where art galleries, mountain retreats, and vineyard escapes set the stage for deeper connection.


We design our high-end matchmaking services to complement these backdrops. Imagine a private table at a chef’s tasting, a stroll through a new exhibit at the North Carolina Museum of Art, or a weekend trip to the Blue Ridge Mountains. These aren’t staged moments; they’re authentic experiences where chemistry can unfold naturally.


The Matchmaking Process: Tailored and Confidential


Our approach is as considerate as the people we serve:


  1. Confidential Consultation: It starts with a private conversation. We listen, ask questions, and understand not just who you are, but who you’re looking for.
  2. Curated Introductions: Your personal matchmaker handpicks matches, every introduction is deliberate.
  3. Concierge Support: Planning an evening should never feel like another task on your calendar. We help with details so you can simply show up.
  4. Ongoing Guidance: Honest feedback and coaching when you want it, ensuring the process remains aligned with your vision.


It’s matchmaking for professionals who want to save time without sacrificing authenticity or privacy.


Begin your exclusive matchmaking journey in North Carolina today.


Why Select Date Society?


There are plenty of services that call themselves high-end dating services. What makes us different is how intentionally small we remain. We work with only a select number of clients at a time, which allows us to deliver the kind of high-touch experience busy leaders actually need.


Our founders, Amber Lee and Sandra Myers, are more than celebrity matchmakers—they’re trusted advisors who have built a private network of accomplished, vetted professionals across the country. When you choose Select Date Society, you’re not joining a list. You’re gaining access to expertise, discretion, and introductions designed with care.


Learn more about our exclusive membership and why North Carolina’s top professionals trust us.


Invest in the Relationship You Deserve


Here’s the truth: love isn’t something you can control. But how do you approach it? That’s a choice. Select Date Society helps you approach it with intention. With our upscale matchmaking, you’re not waiting on chance encounters; you’re stepping into curated opportunities that fit your world.


If you’re ready for a private, thoughtful way to meet someone who matches your success, your pace, and your vision, we’d love to start that conversation with you.


Schedule Your Confidential Consultation Now.

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Elite Matchmaking Within North Carolina

Charlotte Greensboro Raleigh
CONCIERGE LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Basic Membership )
PLATINUM LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( Client Approved Matches )
EXECUTIVE VIP LEVEL MEMBERSHIP
( White Glove Service - Limited Space )
Million Dollar Membership (Invite Only)
Founders Club
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
This is Ultra-Exclusive matchmaking. It’s an immersive relationship concierge experience, starting with a private, in-home consultation conducted by the co-founders themselves. No assistants. No delegation.

Client Success Stories

Isabella & Daniel
"The truth is, I was nervous to sign up. Their success rate was so high that I worried...
Lindsay & Raf
“I spent two years serial dating using dating apps, which yielded zero results. I then decided to hire...
Rachael & Travis
Select Date Society introduced Rachael & Travis in October of 2020. Travis lived in Chicago and Rachael lived...
Lisa & Wayne
My husband of 36 years passed away from cancer almost two years ago. We met when we were...
Chloe & Mark
“I was living in Savannah when the team at SDS reached out to me, but I told them...
Elise & Josh
“I had the pleasure of working with Select Date Society to find my soulmate and I couldn’t be...
Debbie & Doug
“I would like to start by saying that after experiencing a relationship that ended after 25 years in...
Lynnelle & Ryan
“We cannot say thank you enough to the Select Date Society team for all of your guidance and...
Danielle & Rich
“I want to start by saying that after divorce, the idea of finding a soul mate was not...

Servicing Areas

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Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia Pittsburgh SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Trenton Tribeca
Southeast
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Midwest
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Southwest
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West
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Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Select Date Society different from typical dating apps?

Select Date Society offers a highly personalized, boutique matchmaking service exclusively for elite singles. Unlike mass-market apps, we focus on meaningful, vetted introductions tailored to your unique goals and lifestyle.

Is my privacy protected?

Absolutely. Confidentiality is our top priority. We use NDAs, secure communication, and strict data handling protocols to ensure your personal information remains private at all times.

How does the luxury matchmaking process work?

Our professional Matchmakers start with a confidential consultation to understand your preferences. Then, we carefully select compatible matches from our private database and provide ongoing coaching and support throughout your dating journey.